helping others
have u ever came across someone that was so fucked up and you wanted to help them so bad that u had to be open and honest with them and give them the raw hurtful truth of who they are as a person. they are most likely in denial and would HATE that you had them figured out, but how will they change? they want to change, they want to be happy. after
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The fact that you care enough to want to help someone shows what kind of great person you are. You can't change anyone and you know that. They have to change themselves but it often takes being hurt to be better. The kind of person you want to have a long term friendship with is one who accepts your criticism in the spirit it is intended. And if they resent or reject you for it, you are better off in the long term. Imagine a world where no one cared about helping someone else due to potential consequences! You woudn't enjoy that place. You will feel better by being honest even though it may not seem that way at first. Besides, if someone doesn't hug you to thank you for your direct and caring approach, then there is a line of others who will be hugging you extra. Including me!! Do what you've always done. Be a good person!
Eddie
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