Comments | jroe164: Rant!

jroe164

Rant!

Mar 28, 2006 11:44

Ok, Friday night was great, went home and relaxed ( Read more... )

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lady_rae_marie March 28 2006, 17:48:21 UTC

awww i'm sorry that Michael is being an ass. how was the babyshower???

jroe164 March 28 2006, 19:05:41 UTC

good

hi alexmylove5 March 28 2006, 18:13:32 UTC

hey hun let me tell you now to get used to it. Men don't do shit when you ask. My hubby still doesn't do to much and we've been together for 6 1/2 yrs. lol i'm here if you ever need any help. just ask and you can have my # just in case.
Learn to take deeeeeep breaths.

Re: hi jroe164 March 28 2006, 19:04:57 UTC

I've tried everything! Nothing seems to work...I finally told him that I was going to leave the next time, and not even say a word...I think he is finally waking up...he promised me that he was going to do the rest of the laundry, and do the dishes...Lets see!

Re: hi alexmylove5 March 28 2006, 23:05:58 UTC

I'm here anytime day or night if you need me. what are friends for right?

Re: hi jroe164 March 29 2006, 16:09:58 UTC

Thank you so much!

mrsblackorchid March 29 2006, 21:29:56 UTC

Oh gosh! What a horrible couple of days. Work and your husband are both giving you a hard time and you are busting your ass cleaning, trying to compensate for the lack of help and you are pregnant!! That is just way too stressful. My Mike wasn't that great at first but one thing that helped is i just stopped doing certain things (like laundry)and i would just let it pile up and he got the jist of doing that eventually. I still do more but i would say he's better than the average husband on chores. I think most don't do hardly anything and that is crazy. What are their mom's teaching them?

jroe164 March 30 2006, 14:54:49 UTC

Well, I know that when he was growing his mom did EVERYTHING for him, and if she didn't, she made his sister...sickening! I got home last night, and he did a load of laundry, but....here's the catch! IT WAS ALL HIS!

mrsblackorchid March 30 2006, 23:20:08 UTC

Yeah, spoiling kids is not good and that is bad too that she made the sister do it and not him. That taught him that it is the woman's job. My husband was spoiled as well and it had selfishness affects on his personality too. It has taught me not to spoil my future kids.

You know what though? What if grandparents spoil? There has to be some boundaries i guess. I am a little worried if his mom will go overboard with our kids or not.

jroe164 March 31 2006, 15:39:08 UTC

Oh I hear ya! I just don't know what to do anymore!