Comments | jroe164: More info! Even more pissed!

jroe164

More info! Even more pissed!

Mar 31, 2006 10:51

Ok, so, I met up with one of Michael's friends last night, and talked to him for about 1 1/2 hours...I found out that the reason we owe him so much money is because Michael has been getting "Norcos" (1000mg Vicoden) At this point, I don't know what other pills he is taking, But his friend and I are supposed to meet again tonight to talk some more ( Read more... )

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lady_rae_marie March 31 2006, 23:41:28 UTC

God damn girl! I'm sooo sorry!!! If you HAVE to!! I'm serious, take your mom up on her invitation even if there are 100 people living with her! Then she'd have plenty of people to play with her too. There's a plus side. I'm sorry hunny. I really am. ta ta!

mrsblackorchid April 1 2006, 05:37:19 UTC

Why do you think he needs those pain pills? Do you think he is just addicted or does he have back pains or something like that? Have you confronted him and told him that you know how much he really owes and that you are unhappy that he can't talk with you about this and that he did that behind your back?
Has Michael always been not so understanding to you?
I don't think people can change. I think maybe people can adjust slightly but not totally change their personalitites. So, it's either he wakes up and realizes that he is making you very unhappy, you deal with it in your own way, or you leave. And that will all come about in talks and future stuff.

lady_rae_marie April 1 2006, 05:43:24 UTC

i agree but people can't change unless they want to. and then sometimes not completely because it's just not apart of their personality. This person knows what they are talking about.

mrsblackorchid April 1 2006, 05:48:08 UTC

Yeah, exactly...you are right about people not changing unless they want to. They have to know they have a problem and be willing to work on changing themselves. That is tough though.

jroe164 April 4 2006, 13:44:55 UTC

That's the thing, he DOESN'T need the pain pills, he is just addicted! I confronted him over the weekend about the debt of these pills, and he just keeps telling me, "I'm not taking anything!" Yeah ok, considering he can't even look me in the eye when we are talking anymore! I am just to the point that I am giving up! I hate to say that, but what else can I do? I can't keep dealing with a lying husband, Not with a baby on the way!

conphie April 3 2006, 21:33:39 UTC

totally unrelated but I see you asked to join newparents and I'd just like to point you in the direction of the most recent post on there rather than fill your personal journal with that stuff :o)