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[jthesoccerman03]

ok so we had to pick something to write a position paper on for english, preferably something we feel strongly about. i choose abstinence. and i was thinking that itd be cool to see where other people stand on the subject. so

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[anonymous]

-not a virgin
-wish i was
- i just realized that im too young for it to mean anything. It sucks that i had to grow up a little before realizing that i am young.

[jthesoccerman03]

being able to realize your too young makes you pretty mature in my book

[anonymous]

Yep

i think having your v-card is something to be proud of

having sex is something that should be done when you are in love and most of the time in high school, yeah you might find someone you really care about but most of the time it ends eventually. If you are a virgin keep it untill you are absolutly sure you cant live without the girl or guy before considering it.

[jthesoccerman03]

definitly :-)

[need4speed8188]

Virgin: Yep and proud of it.

I think people having a V-card is a cool thing. It means that you aren't easily influenced to do something that you may not want to do. And that you think about the consequences of choices that you make.

From things I've heard from many people, this is what I have to say. Making out and all is good, but a couple needs to make boundaries. If a couple allows handjobs...then that will probably lead to blowjobs...then to sex. I don't go past making out and just having a good time with a girl. I also suggest wait till marriage. Why? You're virginity is one gift that you can give to the person that you love that most people wouldn't be able to offer. Also, if both of the partners where virgins, neither would judge if the other was good or bad at sex. That bond would be something that few people would have. So, if you still have your great gift of virginity, save it for wife/husband...remember once it's gone, there's no going back.

[jthesoccerman03]

I think those are good poits but you also gotta base it on your personal feelings. You cant live by what other people tell you to think and fell. You gotta figure out how you feel about it and then make a decision. No one can or should decide for you.

[luckylaydii]

i'm a virgin. I'M A FUCKING SAINT TO BISH SO BOW!

[jthesoccerman03]

all hail lina, the crazy colombian bitch!!

:-)

crazy

[anonymous]

Still a virgin......yes!!!! i hate it when ppl just assume that i am not..i aloso hate the fact that most guys thats what they want to know have you had sex yet?wtf kind of question is that ...come get to know someone date them ..but just by meeting them ask..but the amswer is NO i havent had sex alot of my friends have i just think it shoukld be shaired with the person you are in love with and high school love idk i personally dont think that it last..so i choice to wait..because once it is gone its the one thing u cant get back soo i keep my VVVV card!!!!

[jthesoccerman03]

It just shows how sex oriented we are when guys are always asking about sex, and not joking around about it either.

highschool love does last in some cases (both sets of grandparents were highschool sweethearts) but i think it is happening less and less as it becomes more acceptible to have premarital sex. the fact that you can go out and get laid anytime you want gives people a false sense of love. real love doesnt solely involve sex, although its a big part of it. the best way to describe it ive heard was from my grandpa. he said that a relationship is like a stool with 3 legs. one is the sexual side, one is the spiritual side, and one is the emotional side. they all gotta be equal or the stools gonna fall over. you cant negate your sexuality in a relationship but at our age, it should be a different kind of sexuality than 5 or 10 years from now when were married. we should save intercourse for later when were emotionally and spiritually ready for it.