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[junjun]

I know its so fucking stupid to care about. Im going to look back and go "why the hell did i cry over that". but right now it doesnt matter what i'll do later. Leave his stupid fucking age OUT OF THIS! why dont you even care to meet him!? He's a good person! He's NOT going to rape me, he's NOT going to hurt me. Why can't you trust me to choose good

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No lectures here.

[chaosomega]

Fuck your parents (not literaly, of course). Do what you want. That's me. Being the good daughter and all, you deserve it.

[navi]

don't give up on having a relationship with him just because your parents said no this time. keep seeing him and eventually hopefully they'll get the picture. or surprise them and have him come over to meet them. they can't very well say no to meeting him when he's standing right there. if they do, it just goes to show how close-minded they are. i wouldn't say outright rebel against your parents, but stay firm with the fact that you are not going to quit associating with him. besides, he's not THAT much older than you. its not like he's old enough to be your father or something. if that was the case, then i could understand your parents not wanting you to see him. ^^; but he's only what, 2 years older than you? that's not that bad. good luck.

No lecture

[the_duchess]

I am having serious dejavu....my parents are the same way. They still criticize John as often as possible. Damn you shoulda heard them when we first started dating. In fact, we started seeing each other behind their backs because they were being such idiots. Crying is good for you....I cried a lot and still do because of those problems (now mostly cuz I'm pissed that they can't get over it, I mean I'm probably gonna marry the poor boy).

You are a great kid, just like me ^_~ Our parents just can't see that.

mou..

[kyonomiko]

I understand how that it. My current boyfreind (and possibly soon-to-be-fiance? ::giggle:: hazukashii!!) Is about 12 years my senior. I lied to my parents about his age b/c he still looks young, and I moved in w/him before I told them. At first, it was a mess with them..But I'm out of the house, etc. It's been my experience that if you're the oldest child, the only daughter, or in my case, both, parents tend to be more restrictive. Not nessesarily b/c they're pricks or anything, but because they're worried, and probably not ready for you to grow up yet. The sooner they understand why they're restricting you, the sooner they can come to terms with it and lighten up.