i think, as someone who has always had "bad timing", that it just means that person isn't the right one, even for now. some time, later, maybe it'll be the case, that the person was the right person. i've chased after someone for over a year, perhaps what you could call "courting", and it was somewhat mutual because there was, perhaps, some thing there. but, it wasn't the right timing. and perhaps now, almost 6 months after that has all stopped, maybe it was the best thing for me not to be with that person.
i don't know the complete circumstances or the guy you liked, but even if it sucks right now, maybe there's a good reason why the timing is off at times.
but hey, at least you told the guy how you felt. at least you said it. at least you did that. at least there isn't this lingering contemplation about telling him.
some times, i post like a fiend on a livejournal fix, and some times, i just post infrequently. its just lately i've been posting little posts here and there and some times in a row when i can actually sit down to writing.
LIZ! You are still my friend on LJ...and still my friend in life...so of course I read your journal. :) I totally understand bad timing...I am the Queen. But, I know from personal and recent experience that as hurt as you are now that things didn't work out with this guy, you will get over it. I liked a guy for 5 years and finally told him over Christmas break, only to realize that he sees me as just a really good friend. You could practically compare us to a brother and sister pair. Talk about rejection. But, it's okay now. You'll survive, I promise. And like your other friend say, he's just not the guy for right now.
yeah man -- i've known him since we met our first year in college... but timing was always off with telling him about my feelings ... oh brother
just not to the right time... their losses... that's for sure
i thought you today when i was going to work because i was listening to the used on my way into work and then i was thinking they were coming out in april sometime (or maybe it was today -- i don't know) but the point is i was thinking we hadn't gone to a concert together in a while. but the bigger picture is that i don't think i've seen you since you came back from oxford!!
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i don't know the complete circumstances or the guy you liked, but even if it sucks right now, maybe there's a good reason why the timing is off at times.
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those same thoughts were on my mind today actually
this might be the right time and there's always that thought that there might never be a right time...
thanks for commenting! i caught up on your posts btw .
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but hey, at least you told the guy how you felt. at least you said it. at least you did that. at least there isn't this lingering contemplation about telling him.
some times, i post like a fiend on a livejournal fix, and some times, i just post infrequently. its just lately i've been posting little posts here and there and some times in a row when i can actually sit down to writing.
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Love you and miss you lots!
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just not to the right time... their losses... that's for sure
i thought you today when i was going to work because i was listening to the used on my way into work and then i was thinking they were coming out in april sometime (or maybe it was today -- i don't know) but the point is i was thinking we hadn't gone to a concert together in a while. but the bigger picture is that i don't think i've seen you since you came back from oxford!!
that is more of a tragedy than any boy
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