"When you cut me in two, I never thought I would bleed"

[just_dance_5678]

That lyric pretty much sums up how I'm feeling. more or less

Comments

[blindcrysania]

You know that whole situation just sucks. I'm very sorry you're feeling that way, and I don't want to be mean, so don't take this in a mean way. It's just that boys do things when they're loaded that they wouldn't ordinarily do, and you're not exactly subtile about it when you like somebody. He isn't trying to hurt you, and he isn't even really trying to send you mixed signals. He's one of my closest friends and I know that he really does care for you as a friend... but that's it. He was trashed. That's really all there is to it.
~sigh~ I know how you feel though... why the hell do we (and by we, I mean women in general) get ourselves in these situations where men have the upper hand?! We need to find good men that will love us for who we are, not what we buy them or what sexual favors we indulge them in!! I for one am boycotting boys... I want myself a MAN who will do things for me without having alterior motives! And you deserve one too, by the way. Don't you settle for less!

[just_dance_5678]

I know people do things when they are trashed. I KNOW that Jay never liked me, we have talked about it MANY times. I am perfectly okay with that. This incident doesn't change anything for me, and thats what I'm upset about. The fact that he's getting weird about it. I know what happened happened because of the situation or whatever. Okay thats all fine and good, but he doesn't need to ignore me now. I'm not going to act like he likes me when we hang out now. I'm not dumb. I thought he would have known me better than that, but I guess not. All I'm saying is there is no need for him to act weird. These things happen. As for how I may or may not feel about him, that is irrelevant to our friendship. I guess just tell him to stop acting weird and get over it, I'm not trying to make anything different with our friendship, so he doesn't need to worry. I planned on keeping my feelings and thoughts to myself and not saying anything to him about it. so, I dunno. whatever. I'm over it. Also, I mostly have the upperhand when it comes to guys

Who will by the goat when they can get the milk for free?

[anonymous]

Check the vibes you're sending out to these guys. It's probably the reason for your woes.

Re: Who will by the goat when they can get the milk for free?

[just_dance_5678]

I expected a reply like this. But, anyone who knows me knows that with some guys, my only intention is sexual. But not all guys. The ones I actually want to date is different. I don't come on to them the same way.