Its LOOOOONG!
So guess who IM'ed me today?
My so called "brother in law"...or so we think...
Here's the convo kids...
Yeah- he sucks at life.
danc [8:30 PM]: hi
Kitiebabe1217 [8:30 PM]: Hi
danc [8:30 PM]: Krystle?
Kitiebabe1217 [8:31 PM]: Yeah...Dan?
danc [8:31 PM]: Yeah, hey how are you?
Kitiebabe1217 [8:31 PM]: I'm good, you?
danc [8:32 PM]: Pretty good, Had a long day at work
danc [8:33 PM]: How's school going?
Kitiebabe1217 [8:33 PM]: Going good.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:33 PM]: Did you guys get married?
danc [8:33 PM]: That's good
danc [8:34 PM]: Yeah one month ago yesterday
Kitiebabe1217 [8:34 PM]: Why weren't we invited?
Kitiebabe1217 [8:34 PM]: Last I checked we were at least family
danc [8:34 PM]: That's a good question
danc [8:35 PM]: well..... no one was actually invited, Friday morning your sister decided to get married , and the next day we did
Kitiebabe1217 [8:35 PM]: Oh, but wasn't your family there?
danc [8:36 PM]: It was a little tossed together but it worked
Kitiebabe1217 [8:36 PM]: Not for us.
danc [8:36 PM]: yeah it was a family reunion
Kitiebabe1217 [8:36 PM]: Ah.
danc [8:37 PM]: we can re dedicate our vows down here, actually your aunt Janet offered
danc [8:37 PM]: to have a small wedding, we haven't heard back from her though
Kitiebabe1217 [8:37 PM]: Re dedicate? Are we second best now?
danc [8:38 PM]: no , why would you say that
Kitiebabe1217 [8:38 PM]: Just the way it worked out.
Your family got the real wedding, and you're giving us the re-run version.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:38 PM]: Just kind of makes the mother, father, and sister of the bride feel like crap.
danc [8:40 PM]: we were going to elope somewhere by our selves
Kitiebabe1217 [8:40 PM]: But it just worked out that you were conveniently near your parents.
danc [8:41 PM]: it was nice to have some family there instead of being alone with strangers
Kitiebabe1217 [8:43 PM]: Well, its almost like a lie. We heard about your secret wedding through a rumor...and THEN we got a little notice in the mail...you know, the kind you get when your luggage is lost at the air port...
danc [8:44 PM]: your grandmother told me a story about how she just went to a court house to get married , that was the last thing I wanted to do with your sister
Kitiebabe1217 [8:44 PM]: You did almost the same thing...almost worse.
danc [8:44 PM]: Krystle I am sure you know your parents and sister are not talking right now and haven't been for a while
Kitiebabe1217 [8:45 PM]: Yeah, Tiffany's choice.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:46 PM]: My parents have no problem with Tiffany, they love her, and cry all the time. I know, I live with them. A few days before we left to Ft. Lauderdale mom and Tiff were fine, perfectly. Then suddenly "I hate her" "She hates me" "blah blah blah"...Don't know where that crap came from...but it did...
Kitiebabe1217 [8:46 PM]: ...Tiff's choice.
danc [8:46 PM]: I can't speak for tiffany in regard to that matter
Kitiebabe1217 [8:46 PM]: But I can speak for myself...honestly...I don't like you much. I'm sorry, but I don't.
danc [8:47 PM]: I have never heard Tiffany say she hates anyone
Kitiebabe1217 [8:47 PM]: No...but according to her I hate her.
danc [8:47 PM]: Why is that?
danc [8:47 PM]: according to who?
Kitiebabe1217 [8:47 PM]: I don't know. Its a chemical imbalance...
Kitiebabe1217 [8:47 PM]: According to Tiffany...
Kitiebabe1217 [8:47 PM]: Thats what she tells my grandmother.
dancclose [8:48 PM]: why have you talked to Tiffany
Kitiebabe1217 [8:48 PM]: No. Has she talked to me?
dancclose [8:48 PM]: I think she tried emailing you a few times
Kitiebabe1217 [8:49 PM]: Oh yeah, email. VERY personal contact...and we didn't have electricity for two weeks cuz we had that whole deadly hurricane thing...I just got them today.
danc [8:49 PM]: so, please let me know why you don't like me
danc [8:49 PM]: I heard that your whole area got power back a week ago
Kitiebabe1217 [8:51 PM]: Just because you're you. Not cuz you're christian, not cuz you "stole my sister away"...At first that was the reason...you took her away...then I just learned I'm not a fan of your personality...sometimes it just works like that. Can't help it. Human nature.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:51 PM]: Yeah- we got it back a week ago. Got internet back about a few days ago.
danc [8:51 PM]: Krystle I barely know you, and we haven't talked in a while
Kitiebabe1217 [8:52 PM]: Am I supposed to know every in and out of your personality? I don't want to at this point. I'd rather learn who the hell my sister is.
danc [8:52 PM]: last time I talked to you was when you gave me a book and I bought you one
danc [8:53 PM]: then call her
Kitiebabe1217 [8:53 PM]: I have, she hasn't called back.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:53 PM]: Plenty of times.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:53 PM]: I've left messages...then I heard she got married...that kinda pissed me off...since I thought I once mattered in her life...figured if she's alope I'd get a call the morning of...
danc [8:54 PM]: if that's the case then try calling her tonight -she should be home in 15 min or so
danc [8:55 PM]: well, I am pretty sure that has nothing to do with her not wanting to talk to you, just maybe avoiding confrontation with your parents
Kitiebabe1217 [8:55 PM]: Because a phone call will fix it all...I don't like trying to keep a relationship on the phone...I'd rather see her on a regular basis...rather have a sister...not the shadow of what once was...I never had a sister...then I lost her...I'm gonna go to bed now...good nbye
Kitiebabe1217 [8:55 PM]: Well by avoiding them...there's an unevitable confrontation on why she's avoiding her own fucking parents.
danc [8:56 PM]: have a good night
danc [8:56 PM]: well I know either way it doesn't affect how she feels about you
danc [8:57 PM]: thats why she sent you emails to let you know she is moving
Kitiebabe1217 [8:57 PM]: Hmm...moving where?
danc [8:57 PM]: asheville .NC
Kitiebabe1217 [8:57 PM]: Nice to know.
danc [8:57 PM]: she emailed you
Kitiebabe1217 [8:57 PM]: I know- I JUST read it.
Kitiebabe1217 [8:58 PM]: it just said "I'm moving"
Kitiebabe1217 [8:58 PM]: Very specific information
danc [8:58 PM]: so are you gonna call your sis
Kitiebabe1217 [8:58 PM]: 'sis'
Kitiebabe1217 [8:58 PM]: ?
Kitiebabe1217 [8:58 PM]: If I had one...I probably would.
danc [8:58 PM]: well maybe she meant for you to respond for the rest
dancclose [8:59 PM]: you werent saying that 2 months ago
Kitiebabe1217 [8:59 PM]: a sis isa best friend...a sister is a member of the family...a sibling is someone you barely know...just your DNA matches...
danc [8:59 PM]: your feeling change quick
Kitiebabe1217 [8:59 PM]: Things have changed....
danc [8:59 PM]: why she never did anything to you
danc [8:59 PM]: why she never did anything to you
Kitiebabe1217 [8:59 PM]: i didn't say she did...
Kitiebabe1217 [9:00 PM]: She changed. I changed.
danc [9:00 PM]: I know she tried to hang out with you many times and you didn't want to
Kitiebabe1217 [9:00 PM]: Bye.
danc [9:00 PM]: thats a shame
Kitiebabe1217 [9:00 PM]: So are you
<3 kitten- make me happy...