My Heart Hurts...

[just_simply_me7]

I'm sad...my best friend, someone who really knows me is leaving in 11 days. He will be gone for 5 long months. I completely support him in this and I am so excited for him. But I am going to miss him more than I could ever explain. I've gotten so caught up in being supportive and excited, that the sadness got ignored. But now it's coming up

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[vulnerablelove]

honesty, Stace. it hurts. it hurts you both. He may only be looking at the excitement, but you know that he's hurting about leaving you. Maybe he hasn't learned whatyou have about there not being any benefit in pushing people away because it will temporarily feel better. Yeah, if you push it away, it'll feel ok the next few days...but it'll hurt you so much moe when he's gone. You have 11 days to be excited with him to hurt with him...be honest with him, Stace, let yourself hurt with him, and I bet he'll let himself hurt with you. let yourself hurt. Together.

I love you

[just_simply_me7]

I love you.