I have a question, and this may be totally rude and out of line, and if it is... feel completely free to scream at me and delete me, k? But, what's the story of your divorce? are you gay? (I hope I'm not offending you..)
the short story goes like this: my wife decided it was ok for her to 'open' our relationship, i.e. cheat on me openly. and she decided it was ok for her kids to stay with us indefinitely, and have mommy pay for their car and insurance bills when they don't feel like working, even though they're in their 20's and one has a master's degree. so, I decided it was time to save my hide and sanity, and run screaming. May 19th is the final divorce hearing. Yay!!!
yeah, I've been kinda quiet. there have been too many posts to keep up - something like 400 per day. and I've been extra busy doing research for my PhD, plus working, plus working out a lot (dancing and ice skating). so while there's lots of good stuff happening, I'm kinda swamped!
Bear, I'm sorry i've never read this before. I've often looked at your journal and wondered what happened, but I've never wanted to outright ask, and now i understand a little more. I just want to say, after reading some other girls comments on here too, you seem like a fantastic person. You're caring, you always take time to comment my journal and it means a lot, because i don't write everything that goes on in my journal so just seeing that someone cares a little makes me feel great. You're smart - tell me more about your PhD!! I'm totally fascinated by intellect :D And you're really really sweet :} Thanks xox
Thank you so much! My PhD is studying the process of aging. We're trying to figure out how it starts at the cell level - what goes wrong that makes us start aging? I don't expect any huge revelations, but if it gets me a dissertation, I'll be tickled pink. xoxox
Comments 16
xoxox
wishformore
Reply
I'll message you privately with the story.
xox
Reply
Reply
Oh and for the record, add me to my new LJ please! rootmyplant is my new username! xoxo
Reply
<3333
Reply
xoxox
Reply
i miss yer posts :) & you lol
Reply
Reply
also, you've disappeareddddd. post more? <3;
Reply
my wife decided it was ok for her to 'open' our relationship, i.e. cheat on me openly. and she decided it was ok for her kids to stay with us indefinitely, and have mommy pay for their car and insurance bills when they don't feel like working, even though they're in their 20's and one has a master's degree.
so, I decided it was time to save my hide and sanity, and run screaming.
May 19th is the final divorce hearing. Yay!!!
yeah, I've been kinda quiet. there have been too many posts to keep up - something like 400 per day. and I've been extra busy doing research for my PhD, plus working, plus working out a lot (dancing and ice skating). so while there's lots of good stuff happening, I'm kinda swamped!
Reply
yeah, sounds like it. hope you're at least enjoying yourself some. ^.^
Reply
Reply
I just want to say, after reading some other girls comments on here too, you seem like a fantastic person. You're caring, you always take time to comment my journal and it means a lot, because i don't write everything that goes on in my journal so just seeing that someone cares a little makes me feel great. You're smart - tell me more about your PhD!! I'm totally fascinated by intellect :D And you're really really sweet :}
Thanks
xox
Reply
My PhD is studying the process of aging. We're trying to figure out how it starts at the cell level - what goes wrong that makes us start aging? I don't expect any huge revelations, but if it gets me a dissertation, I'll be tickled pink.
xoxox
Reply
So, any anti-aging secrets for me yet? :P
xox
Reply
Leave a comment