Yeah, I mean it's hard and I felt a pang when I discovered that she had blocked me from all social media sites and then I thought "well, you know.. I guess that's it then". I didn't cry, yeah I felt sadness but unlike when I was younger, the option to just fall apart is not available to me, nor would I want it even if it was.
I'm glad you are feeling better. I keep hearing from people in their 30s and 40s that when they look back at their teens and 20s and see what depressed them and causes them so much stress, they can't believe it was ever such an issue. I hope that kind of knowledge gets to me someday (knowing what is really important, instead of searching for it.)
I did get some awesome piece of advice from a 50 year old women the other day (a patient actually from where I work) : "It is funny I've just realized this after two marriages, two divorces, and three children between them, that the only thing you need to look for while dating is this: on the first date, the person is putting on their best show for you. If they lie once or be rude or otherwise disappoint you while on their BEST behavior, they are going to disappoint you for the rest of the relationship and it will end terribly."
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I did get some awesome piece of advice from a 50 year old women the other day (a patient actually from where I work) : "It is funny I've just realized this after two marriages, two divorces, and three children between them, that the only thing you need to look for while dating is this: on the first date, the person is putting on their best show for you. If they lie once or be rude or otherwise disappoint you while on their BEST behavior, they are going to disappoint you for the rest of the relationship and it will end terribly."
lol so true.
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Life does go on~.
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I've missed you so much :)
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