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[jyxtrant]

My life isn't going anywhere.  What am I doing wrong?

I feel like I can quantify my life right now in terms of things that I am NOT doing:  not engaged, not getting married, not saving money, not going to grad school, not working a job in line with my interests.  Not losing weight.  Not getting anywhere.

Not moving forward.

Comments

[gorksplat]

trust me, i'm not doing any of those thing either so you're certainly not alone.

the one thing i DID learn in therapy though, is "i am done with guilt" and the only thing that really matters is if you're happy.

do you want to be engaged or married? or is this something that worries you because you *think* that's what you're *supposed* to be doing?