Ask away, I'm an open book...er..journal. I would love to have more insight into my little problems. Also, I would have more public entries but last year that made one special person to me very angry so I've been doing friends only entries for quite some time.
Well, hope you don't mind me posting about personal stuff like this, but I just have alot of opinions sometimes I like to get out.
Well, I don't really know the background information on this whole Kristy Situation, but sounds to me like it's turning out to be something unhealthy.
I mean, it would be okay if you were one of those "Wham, bam, thank you maam!" people...
Usually, what I would say to her being all unresponsive and preoccupied would be: Hell, she's just using you, it's obvious to me you want more out of this than her.
But then again, you divulged your suspicions that you MAY by using her for sex, so I'm looking at this as a two way thing.
You get what you give, so I guess if you want more, you gotta give more too.
DISCLAMER!!! Don't take this seriously if you don't want to. These are just the ramblings of a nosy single teen.
She's younger than me, just wants to have fun, doesn't want to be tied down. Sex is just sex, and she's been doing it for a lot longer than I have (she's my first). I appear to be missing her now that we're not in school and I'm just frustrated how making the plans makes me feel. I want to feel... wanted. I want to hear that she wants to mess around too, not keep leaving me up to make all the advances. She left me before when she was afraid I was getting close, and it makes me very careful about voicing my feelings. Still, having her is better than having nothing.
I don't really have much to say to that. *hold your laughter*
Coz well, never been in a sitch like that! I mean, I would really try to get out of a relationship like that. But then, everyone has their own preferences.
However, it does sound like it could have some really bad implications on your self-confidence down the road (i used to have friends somewhat like that)
So natural reflexes tell me to run! run the hell away from anyone like that!
I'm sorry you're so down. I hope you'll be able to sort it out with her and have a good outcome. I'm also one of the single girls that doesn't understand how almost everyone on the community has someone (I seem to have trouble meeting girls who are, well, gay or bi, ha).
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Well, I don't really know the background information on this whole Kristy Situation, but sounds to me like it's turning out to be something unhealthy.
I mean, it would be okay if you were one of those "Wham, bam, thank you maam!" people...
Usually, what I would say to her being all unresponsive and preoccupied would be: Hell, she's just using you, it's obvious to me you want more out of this than her.
But then again, you divulged your suspicions that you MAY by using her for sex, so I'm looking at this as a two way thing.
You get what you give, so I guess if you want more, you gotta give more too.
DISCLAMER!!! Don't take this seriously if you don't want to. These are just the ramblings of a nosy single teen.
Chrys
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Still, having her is better than having nothing.
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Well, er...
I don't really have much to say to that. *hold your laughter*
Coz well, never been in a sitch like that! I mean, I would really try to get out of a relationship like that. But then, everyone has their own preferences.
However, it does sound like it could have some really bad implications on your self-confidence down the road (i used to have friends somewhat like that)
So natural reflexes tell me to run! run the hell away from anyone like that!
Bi-curious chicks so spell danger.
In my dictionary. :P:P
Chrys
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Anyway, would you mind an add? You're cool.
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