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[kadeegirl24]

This is my tribute to the nice girls. To the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games,

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[anonymous]

I am a guy and i know exactly what you are talking about,
we are looking for those "nice" girls but for some reason in my case everygirl i thought was nice has turn out to be very different.
I would love to be waiting at the concession stand but its hard to do that. But why do the girls always fall for the jerks, i dont get it. I have tried and for some reason everytime i try to get a nice girl i get passed by for some jerk and i dont understand.

Wow!....

[schadband]

...Katy, that was by far some of the most compelling and articulate writing on the subject of relationship frustration I think I have ever laid eyes on. Firstly, I'll be the first to admit, on behalf of my sex, yes, most guys are pigs. I am sorry to admit it, but while most of us are tired of getting our hearts broken time and time again by the very girls we know we shouldn't be chasing after, we continue to do so for no real reason other then it's just in the male nature to want what we can't have and men are scum. For revealing this to you I am in danger of having my membership card to the boys club taken away for revealing secrets that we as members of the XY chromosone carriers have tried to keep secret for centuries. Men instinctivly go after the wrong sort of girl, even though we know better, and we wonder why we get our hearts broken. But, like I've always said, there's execptions to every rule, that includes the rules of nature. There do exist in this world a group of guys that feel the exact same way that you do toward the

[phantomshoelace]

Wow...such is the frustration of my life sometimes. But, you know what I've realized? Those guys that do chase after the whores and the girls who are willing to sacrifice their own intelligence and integrity for some sleezy guy to whistle at them and call them "baby,"- those guys may be in the majority, yes. But, I've come to the realization that I know them when I see them, and frankly, they're not even attractive to me. I can see a guy that is physically gorgeous, but the minute I see him hitting on some skimpily clothed bimbo, he becomes quite hideous, actually. I've accepted that the right guy for me is the member of a very slim minority (on the large scale), and I may never find him, but I won't settle for the mediocre sex-driven boys (not men) that I see running around everywhere

[smellinellen725]

ok so all I have to say is...DITTO MOMAN!!! I mean seriously, I dated a guy for 4 f-ing years and all I got was alot of heartbreak! I thought that I had finally found someone but sadly I was mistaken! He said he loved me but yet we fought all the time! He said that no matter what we would be together forever one day! He said that no matter what my parents said or forbid that he would find a way to make me happy and us be together for real! He even got to the point where he said that we were gonna get married and be together and even asked me to marry him (unofficially!) I believed every word of it because I thought that he meant it...unfortunately he decided that trying to be with me was to much trouble and started going after other girls while still saying he loved me! I was stupid...I fell for it all! And you know what Ive learned...that life can suck at times but as long as you keep your head up you wont miss what God has in store for you! Because if you decide to mourn over how you've been hurt or write of boys...then you will

[pointless_sage]

forreal- ditto freeman

[graphicboy]

Katie, Love ya alot sweetie! Have so much fun last night with you. We need to do another late night dinner like that. I know what you mean about all you've said. It gets annoying when girls flirt and play along with you. They pull your heart strings and play with your emotions, and then they drop you....because?.....because they look at you as a brother. Of course, it's nice because they're open to you and theyll share intimate things with you, but they won't date you because they see you as a "close friend". So, I know what you mean. How do we get ourselves into this and how do we cross that line. I respect you and Rachel alot. Just remember, you may feel this way, but that doesn't mean it's true. I know several guys who are smitten with you. Your smart, beautiful, funny, fun to be around and definately NOT boring. Don't get frustrated. You can look at this in many positive ways. You are respected!

[kadeegirl24]

who are these guys that are "smitten" with me?? i have yet to meet one haha...other than one, but i don't think you know him..but i had a lot of fun, too!! can't WAIT till this week:O)

[graphicboy]

hey cutie...I love you...you are so freaking hot...can we go color together?....maybe in the library...