Quick Check

[kagenotatsu]

Just a quick check, the general concensus as eve pointed out, is that everything is 100% my fault for relationshp problems with hester, and and that even if she starts eomething (which as one would expect in most relationships is about half the time) it is still my fault. Yes

Comments

[shwango]

i don't think that everything is your fault. it's just that you keep bringing up the same things. even though you're giving her space, you need to give her more. if that means completely ignoring her unless she starts the conversation, then that's what you need to do. if you're worried about not having anyone to talk to, you have plenty of friends, and you can talk to me, but don't complain about her constantly.

[morning_jacket]

"relationshp problems with hester"

Ok there's your problem right there. You still want to have a relationship with hester, as far as I and everyone else can see, but that's (obviously) not happening. So you are getting all clingy and desperate to see hester, which makes her want to see you even less, which makes you want to see her more, etc etc vicious circle. I think if you just mellowed out a bit, maybe stopped being so touchy feely with her, things would be better.

[kagenotatsu]

Im being touchy feely over im? Cause that is pretty much how i see her, and by relationship, i meant this psuedo-friendship weve got going right now.

[xpaperxdollx]

thats not what i said jacob dont put words in my mouth!

[kagenotatsu]

Oh, sorry, that's what i got outta
"You need to grow up and and stop acting like a five year old who got his lollipop taken away."

What did you mean then?

[penguinbubble]

i know this is a hard for you. and i've never had this happen to me before so i honestly don't know. but, all i can say is to give it some time. try not to take my words too personally, but whenever i see you and hester together you're always trying to talk to her or hug her. now, there's only something wrong with that because i don't really think she wants to

[kagenotatsu]

You didnt make it worse, and yeah, ive been really trying to treat her like any other friend, but its kinda hard, when i hardly see her, and she dosent exactly treat me like any of my other friends do (she kinda refuses to see me outside of school and stuff). so *shrug* i dunno *sigh*. Ill just keep trying to give her space, and hoping that when she needs more she will let me know.

[xxmacabre]

Okay, Jacob... I guess I should put in my two cents. And it might come out a bit harsh, but I'm really not trying to make you feel bad, alright? Keep that in mind

[penguinbubble]

wonderfully said!