I've tried getting out there, soon as I stop bugging people they forget about me *shrug*. I bug people to hang out when i see them online, but generally I wind up spending most of my time alone, and have just gotten used to it.
then why do you keep complaining. i think you just like to complain. there's an old proverb that says you should be the friend you want to find. if you mope around you won't attract many interesting people. maybe you're right. maybe people were only your friends before because you were with hester. but, you need to act like the person you want to attract. people, naturally, are attracted to others most like themselves. get involved in a club. go for a walk by yourself. especially when school starts you'll be able to meet a lot of new people. i don't want to hear this "i try, but everyone hates me" crap. it's pure crap i say. no one wants to hang out with you because you're no fun to hang out with. try harder. don't take no for an answer. be interesting. get a life.
Never said everyone hates me, and I generally just vent onto livejournal, so this isnt really representitive of how i tend to feel, I do generally try to act cheerful, but when I'm feeling like crap, its nice to have somewhere to vent to.
"be interesting. get a life."
Yes, because I obviously havent tried to be interesting or get a life. I'm trying to make people remember me and such, and trying to talk to people as much as possible, I dont want to join a club, I already do aikido 3+ times a week (and next week I'm gonna be in the dojo from monday through friday) so it isnt like I'd be able to anyhow (there'd likely be conflicts).
Generally my problem isnt that people "hate me" as you put it, it is more that they are fine with me being around, but when they go to invite people to things, they think of me last, or not at all.
Cool. I was wondering if you were somebody I knew or you just found on lj, friending me is fine. Just a warning though: among other things, my journal has a lot (repeat:large amounts) of angst. ^_^;
I'm not really involved in much but would kinda like to start, some of my friends go to protests and stuff so I thought watching a community on activism would be a good way to find about that kinda stuff.
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"be interesting. get a life."
Yes, because I obviously havent tried to be interesting or get a life. I'm trying to make people remember me and such, and trying to talk to people as much as possible, I dont want to join a club, I already do aikido 3+ times a week (and next week I'm gonna be in the dojo from monday through friday) so it isnt like I'd be able to anyhow (there'd likely be conflicts).
Generally my problem isnt that people "hate me" as you put it, it is more that they are fine with me being around, but when they go to invite people to things, they think of me last, or not at all.
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What sort of activism are you involved in?
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