There's nv a person u know perfectly well, not even urself or ur best fren. Sometimes, ur intuition will be wrong. So, try not to be too confident abt knowing someone veri well. N how much u can trust a person really depends.
To trust or not to trust... that is the question
anonymous
April 20 2005, 06:50:08 UTC
UHOo bitch...
Hmm... I guess... for pple who harbour this kind of thinking... most prob got hurt by someone they trust in the past... hence they learn to be defensive... or "smart" when dealing with the real world.
And for those naive innocents out there who have never kena this kind of thing... or... maybe they kena betrayed but are too stupid to realise it... well... they will continue to trust blindly.
Both extremes are not good.
Coz... a r/s (be it frenship or kinship or love r/s) should always be based on trust... if not, where got strong foundation? And how to be part of a r/s if u r always suspicious of the other party??
Yet... trusting blindly is like throwing ur heart to anyone at all to step on... v risky too.
So... strike a balance lah.
Haha... feel like I am writing essay here. Actually... I am struggling with my work. And... it is getting so bored... I decided to come in and destress. ;P
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Hmm... I guess... for pple who harbour this kind of thinking... most prob got hurt by someone they trust in the past... hence they learn to be defensive... or "smart" when dealing with the real world.
And for those naive innocents out there who have never kena this kind of thing... or... maybe they kena betrayed but are too stupid to realise it... well... they will continue to trust blindly.
Both extremes are not good.
Coz... a r/s (be it frenship or kinship or love r/s) should always be based on trust... if not, where got strong foundation? And how to be part of a r/s if u r always suspicious of the other party??
Yet... trusting blindly is like throwing ur heart to anyone at all to step on... v risky too.
So... strike a balance lah.
Haha... feel like I am writing essay here. Actually... I am struggling with my work. And... it is getting so bored... I decided to come in and destress. ;P
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