Depressed moment

[kasey_sanada]

Sometimes I wonder if I'm just not good enough for someone. I'm 26, and have never dated anyone. I know it didn't help being home schooled for a few years and just being naturally shy, but still. This is sad. So sad its retarded

Comments

[pesarochild]

Oh...I am so sorry.
Sometimes I feel really intrusive for always commenting your journal. I wonder if you even know who I am? But maybe the mystery of it all is okay?

I know exactly how you feel though.
I have to tell you that men aren't everything. Dating isn't all it's cracked up to be.

Whenever I watch TV or something, and there's all this teen-sex-drama, I look at my parents and say: "are you ashamed of me? I haven't dated anyone and I haven't had sex. Do you want me to be like everyone else?"

I have never been home-schooled.
And I am naturally shy.

But the other day, I stepped up and started talking to this guy, and it clicked.

Maybe sometime, just take a BOLD initiative.
Walk over to someone you don't know.

And talk to them.

Just keep trying.
And beauty...well, I'm sure you ARE beautiful. But if you lack confidence in yourself, no one else will see that.

Keep your chin up.

[kasey_sanada]

Don't feel like you're being intrusive. If I didn't want anyone to read it, I would have made it private.

I'm happy that someone replied. I don't have any friends since I moved (all my friends live 1 1/2 hours away now), so people like you make my day happier ^^

And it seems like we have the same interests. (i.e. KRIS ALLEN ^o^ You're also on the same air force base where I was born at! Seriously, we need to get together and talk on day. I think we'd be really good friends!

[pesarochild]

Hello! Sorry for the delay in getting back to you

[kasey_sanada]

Sorry it took so long to reply!

I was a military brat until I was about 11. I was always shy though so I never made friends easily. I have a few friends now, but since I moved from Sacramento to Concord, I see them a couple times a month, which sucks.

I'm planning to move to Iowa next year with another friend, which I'm excited about ^^

Oh! You're talking about my green Aiba banner! That was the first one I ever made. Wow... have you really been on my friends list that long?! lol

If you want to talk more online, my AIM is Kaseychan18 and my Yahoo is kasey_sanada

[yoshikochan]

.__. *huggles* The problem isn't you.

It's MEN.

They're the ones who're not good enough. T.T (Men our generation... I swear... .__. makes me lose hope for the world.)

[kasey_sanada]

I'm beginning to think that too. All the men in California seems to royally lack.

[junkeemunky]

Girls always say they're attracted to me, and I could not understand for the life of me WHY. But apparently it's because I'm really relaxed with myself and confident, even when I was over 200lb. Don't let people tell you it's everyone else, it's your responsibility to let others know how awesome you are.

You got good stuff going for you, and your personality is definitely kickass. You keep yourself up pretty decent, and you always have nice hair. Dude, you just need to step out there, and let people see that you're confident and comfortable with who you are - then, they will be comfortable with you too. Your friends know how great you are; hell I wouldn't hang with you so much if I didn't think you were a wonderful friend and person in general!

[dancing_moo]

Hey hey. Don't think that way. You just have to step out there and grab them and let them know who you are. And if you haven't met anyone yet, it's cos there hasn't been someone good enough for you yet.