I've had girlfriends that assumed I wasn't interested in them any longer, so they were really closed off with me. I couldn't understand why they were doing this... So I came to the conclusion that they didn't really want to be my girlfriend anymore. And when I came to that conclusion, I became closed off to them as well. So I asked them "Why have things changed between us?" and they would say "You went away, and I don't think you want to be my boyfriend anymore." And I'd say, "I still want to be your boyfriend. I was getting the vibe you didn't want to be my girlfriend." And they'd say, "But I thought you didn't want to be my boyfriend!" And then everything was ok.
So, the moral of my story is: It's ok to be unsure. But if you are sure he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, it will show... And quite possibly become a "reality" (I use the "'s because reality is a touchy word). hope this helps. -ian
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So I asked them "Why have things changed between us?" and they would say "You went away, and I don't think you want to be my boyfriend anymore."
And I'd say, "I still want to be your boyfriend. I was getting the vibe you didn't want to be my girlfriend." And they'd say, "But I thought you didn't want to be my boyfriend!" And then everything was ok.
So, the moral of my story is:
It's ok to be unsure. But if you are sure he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, it will show... And quite possibly become a "reality" (I use the "'s because reality is a touchy word).
hope this helps.
-ian
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