REALLY NEED HELP ON THIS ONE

[katalinakate]

When people say "things happen for a reason" how do I know whether that means... (A) I should fight for it because you should spend your life fighting for the things that you believe in, OR (B) I should gracefully let it go because if it was meant to be it would be ?? Please reply.

Comments

[katalinakate]

And this is in reference to houses and career moves.. not guys, btw.

[killerpurple]

I say fight for it, but only if it doesn't make you look desperate or like an ass.