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katastraphy

Trust

Nov 16, 2008 19:57

Trust is such a fickle thing. It can take years to build up, and one small incident to destroy. And you know what? Even when you know it works like that, when that small, trust-destroying incident arises, it still blows 4 years of friendship out of the water ( Read more... )

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whomper November 17 2008, 02:47:05 UTC

*hug*

endlesslight November 17 2008, 10:59:55 UTC

:( What did you do?

katastraphy November 18 2008, 07:12:34 UTC

I didn't really do much, I think. I did just learn that a bunch of friends went rather out of the way to disclude me from something though. So yeah, I'm wondering if there was something more specific that I did.

endlesslight November 19 2008, 18:05:21 UTC

Oh, that's weird. You should talk to one of them and find out what's up. Maybe you just misunderstood what happened.

katastraphy November 20 2008, 07:25:10 UTC

Not really, actually. It was pretty clear. I did talk to one of them, the one I was more upset with because I actually do trust him, and it was pretty much that. Some excuse that didn't really make much sense and was easily solved. And the friends I really do care about were pretty much "lucky to be included."

Largely being too emotional.

terrant November 17 2008, 14:33:34 UTC

Not sure what's going on hon, but I'm around if you wanna talk. Poke me on AIM. I don't bite.

*hugs*

smedgie November 25 2008, 17:50:48 UTC

"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude."

Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a person, a company, a home.

The remarkable things is that we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrance for that day.

We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable.

The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have and that is our attitude.

I am convinced that life is ten percent what happens to us and ninety percent how we react to it.

And so it is with you. We are all in charge of our attitudes.-Charles Swindoll ( ... )