feeling trapped or haunting from the past?

Jul 19, 2008 15:26


Ok, so it is July and usually at least for the past 12 years or so I have held the Quantum meeting at my house.  Quantum is a group of usually wonderful people that have been a terrific part of my life since 1989 when I moved to Indy.

This particular group of people has been very comforting of others in the group, a pretty tight knit community.  ( Read more... )

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thedruidbear July 21 2008, 17:07:05 UTC
It is what it is.... and you will see this in many years when you look back. Friendships come and go and some come around again and again. We are all connected in one way or another, whether we like it or not. It is how we handle those connections that makes us who we are.

I tried to fit into CoJ, but I was always that outsider. I offered help, volunteered where needed and still got no recognition or even a thank you. As a matter of fact, my last effort (which I found recently when cleaning up some old hard drives) was met with ... well... let's just say it was not met well at all. In any case, I resolved that CoJ was too "clique-ish" for me and did my best to preserve my friendships outside the group (and have succeeded).

Peace,

Bear

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kathawkes July 21 2008, 17:31:37 UTC
Thank you so much. You are wonderful. The biggest part that haunts me is that I regret not standing my ground and giving in, just to not seem overly bitchy. But guess what I can be a bitch but I usually get the job done.

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