Kate, you DO attract men. You have done so. But based on what you have told me, I think it's not really a matter of you not attracting them as much as it is that you don't keep it going. Like the last dude. He seemed interested, but then you said you hadn't talked to him or emailed him in however long it had been. Guys are dumb--they are very much out of sight, out of mind. If you don't show active interest, they're not going to pursue you because it's too damaging to their fragile little egos to pursue a girl if they think she's not into them. They're not psychic and most men I know are craptacular at reading non-verbal communication, so they may honestly not realize you're interested
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I've emailed him and sent him a message through FB and I haven't heard from him once since the last time I actually saw him. I don't know how many times I can keep emailing him without feeling like a stalker. It's apparent that he's not interested. And I'm not going to keep chasing him, because he's not giving any indication at all that he wants to be caught.
Ah. Well, then he's a chickenshit dick if he can't be man enough to tell you that he's not interested. Just disappearing and ignoring people is such a lame thing to do. You're better off without if that's how he treats people.
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I've emailed him and sent him a message through FB and I haven't heard from him once since the last time I actually saw him. I don't know how many times I can keep emailing him without feeling like a stalker. It's apparent that he's not interested. And I'm not going to keep chasing him, because he's not giving any indication at all that he wants to be caught.
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