I just don't know what to do with myself

[katiebelle1019]

so Brad left about 10 minutes ago. I think he's irritated because he asked if he could kiss me and I said no because I'm kinda a prude these days. *sigh* I don't know what my deal is. I guess I'm really not ready for the dating scene yet. I haven't felt that spark, that chemistry with the guys that I've gone on a date with that I felt with Doug.

Comments

[tank_girl_33]

hey, well first of all, of course you're not going to feel the same way about these guys that you did with doug - you don't know them well enough. that said, if you think you could see yourself with one of them, i'd say go for it... slowly. but you can only reject kisses for so long before the guy gets frustrated and leaves. on the other hand, if you are just going along with it hoping that you'll start to like him (whichever him) more, that's a bad idea... i've tried that and it's never worked. however, with ian, even though i didn't feel that spark right away, he seemed really nice and i liked spending time with him so i gave him a chance and we went slow and things turned out nice.
so yes, that is my wisdom lol
and yay for stella!