Take it from a fellow "step" child you will feel like the new person if trying to take the parent and you will do all you can to stop it. I tried it with Lloyd, I was jealous and what not. All of us wanted him out and what not. Once we figured it was meant to be, and it was what made my mom happy and he promised us he would not take my mom from us we accepted him (lack of better words). Let your dad know how you feel, once we told my mom it made all the difference cause then Lloyd told us he was not taking mom away. Give her a chance, you want your dad to be happy!! Now that Lloyd is in my life I would not change is for the world (expect one thing...but that can't happen)
You know, a lot of people seem to be telling you that it's no big deal that this woman is in your life, and if she sounded like an ordinary type of woman then i'd say that they were right, but when you say that this woman has threatened to kick your mom's ass WHILE she was drunk, she sounds like a loser if I've ever heard one. I know that if someone said something like that I'd make sure that she knew who was the boss and let her know that anymore comments like that will cause her ultimate fall with my father. It's one thing for the woman to dislike the ex, it's another for her to threaten violence onto her. Even if it's while she's intoxicated she sounds like nothing but a hinderance. It sounds like this will cause more serious issues in the future if measures aren't taken now. I'd say talk to her first, let her know that you won't take that crap. People keep telling you that it's all in your head but I'd really take special precautions and keep the distance between this woman. Tell her this statement right here, "If ANYTHING
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