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*Well so I've been made fun of every school day for the past 2 years. Literally. Not a day has gone by that I'm not mocked, because when it's not at school, it's my brother and my cousin. Do you know how painful it is listening to the same bad things about you every single day for over 600 days ? And getting ridiculed every day? Because you may
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When it's random people you can stomach it because, hey they're people you don't know or care about so it means you don't care about their opinion, it can't hurt you.
But when friends are no longer there, and they say hurtful things or blame it on you. That really can hurt because you do care what they think, friends are meant to be the family you choose, sadly sometimes friends can't live up to this responsibility and they no longer consider you one but you will still consider them one.
My way of dealing was to just stop thinking and shut off the part of your brain that makes you care, it will make things easier and alot more tolerable but it will mean you find it hard to let people in.
I don't advise it because it means finding a way to cope when older is a hard thing to do, finding someone you connect with or a hobby that keeps your attention is a much better way to try and deal.
Or ranting on LJ if that helps. just remember... cindaquils like marshmallows ;)
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But that's exactly what it is. I solved it, which is good, because that's just one less problem. I started shutting people out, unintentionally. It's just a bad habit of mine, I suppose.
And i loves marshmallows! ^^
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and just don't shut the wrong people out. It's not my place to tell you (nor right because it's exactally what i did) to tell you to not shut people out if you feel that will help. just make sure you keep those who are still friends there and able to be talked to.
since they will stillc are and worry for you, and you just won't see it (accidentally becoming like those you hate)
woo good cindaquill <3
voila, in view, a humble vaudevillian vetran!
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Yes. Well those friends of mine, we're friends again. I did shut them out awhile but I .. undid it.
Yay ^^ *huggles*
Cast vicariously as both victim and villain! ;)
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