This happened to me in August and damn if those weren't all the feelings I had.
HOWEVER, you have to always remember: How a terrible person treats you does not reflect on you as a person, it reflects on THEM. You know the nature of your own intentions, you know that you are a good person, and the fact that they abused this does not mitigate it.
Hopefully karma will kick them down a set of stairs.
I completely agree here. I know it sucks now to feel like what you did had no impact, but it did. It certainly didn't have the intended effect on the people it was supposed to impact, but ripples were made.
More than that, the part I agree with, and I can't stress this enough, the fact that you were mistreated by those certain parties is not your fault, but theirs.
Banana PancakesaashiwynnJanuary 19 2010, 19:36:47 UTC
Dearest Diana... You will never understand how very sorry I was to read this. You've often been in my thoughts and I miss us being able to talk... I've been a bad friend to you and for that I'm very sorry. I did what I needed to to protect myself and I'm pretty sure I hurt some people in the process.
Please, please give me a call if you need someone to talk to. We don't even have to talk about that ... We can talk about anything.
Take care of yourself. You are beautiful and amazing, and you deserve the world.
Remember that I'm always here for you to talk to, no matter what. And remember, just because some stupid people don't appreciate you for the wonderful and amazing person you are, you are loved by those of us who do see it. *hug*
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This happened to me in August and damn if those weren't all the feelings I had.
HOWEVER, you have to always remember: How a terrible person treats you does not reflect on you as a person, it reflects on THEM. You know the nature of your own intentions, you know that you are a good person, and the fact that they abused this does not mitigate it.
Hopefully karma will kick them down a set of stairs.
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I know it sucks now to feel like what you did had no impact, but it did.
It certainly didn't have the intended effect on the people it was supposed to impact, but ripples were made.
More than that, the part I agree with, and I can't stress this enough, the fact that you were mistreated by those certain parties is not your fault, but theirs.
*hugs*
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You will never understand how very sorry I was to read this.
You've often been in my thoughts and I miss us being able to talk... I've been a bad friend to you and for that I'm very sorry. I did what I needed to to protect myself and I'm pretty sure I hurt some people in the process.
Please, please give me a call if you need someone to talk to.
We don't even have to talk about that ... We can talk about anything.
Take care of yourself. You are beautiful and amazing, and you deserve the world.
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