So yes. I am engaged. My bf proposed :DDDD
I. Don't really know what to say. Haha. UH UH.
WORDS HOW DO I FORM YOU?!
Okay. So. How did this start?
Alright. On Wednesday, we went to his dad's for dinner because that's what we do. And we had Chinese. And he wanted to talk to his dad alone, which had me going "whatever" because I didn't think anything was up. And then Friday night he goes to me "how do you feel about gold?" to which I was like "uh... i like silver better, but that's just a preference thing. Why :|" and he was like "LADEDA NOTHING MY MOM WAS JUST CURIOUS. SHE WANTED TO GET YOUR EARRINGS" and I was like "oh okay. lol yeah whatever. I don't mind gold."
And then, Friday into Saturday he couldn't sleep. And he couldn't do it again Saturday into Sunday. Which, okay, isn't new. But since he's out of school for the summer I thought he was just stressed or something.
So today. Sunday. He's trying to get everyone together. And i'm like "it's fine bb if we can't" and he's like ":| NO WE NEED TO AND IT NEEDS TO BE THE BEACH!" and me and Lai, my brother, are like "uh idk where else you would want to go" and finally I'm like "baby let's just go to the plaza. We'll have ice cream and sit on our cars and be losers. It's fine" and he's like "BUT NO! I WANTED TO GO TO BEACH AHDJKGAHFKGADHJKGA" and when I was like "WHY OMG :| YOU WHINY PERSON!" he was just like "PLEASE DON'T BE MAD OMG I CAN'T EXPLAIN! JUST. LET ME NOT EXPLAIN. I'LL DO IT TONIGHT! PLEASE DON'T BE MAD" and I was like "....I'm not mad? I'm just very confused why you are hiding something from me :| You can tell me anything :| GOD WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?!"
Needless to say I had no idea what was going on.
So he runs off to go to mom's house, because he has to do house work for her, SO HE TELLS ME, and I get a call a few moments later and he wants me to grab him a collared shirt. I'm like ":| okaaaay?" and we were going to meet for dinner with his brother at 7:30.
I run to my parents house and ring the door bell and my mom rushes to the door, and opens it and her face goes from :DDDDD to :| when she sees just me. "WHERE'S YOUR..." "....my attachment?" "....Yeah. him." "...Idk he needs to do errands. we're going out to dinner. WHY IS EVERYONE LOOKING AT ME :| I JUST WANTED TO SEE WHAT WORK YOU DID TODAY!" They showed me around and then I ran off to dinner.
All throughout dinner Pat, my bf-- finacee's-- brother keeps talking about his and his gf's possible engagement. Which is nothing weird cause the four of us always talk about kids and shit like that. Cause we are losers. And right as we are leaving he tells his brother he wants to show him something. So we finally end up at the plaza, and I of course, am curious, so I'm like "what did you show Pat?" "Oh just something from my dad's :|" ".....can I see?" "Oh it's just some knick-knack. You know that glow up magnet thing?" "...yes?" "That." "oh okay. :D"
And so I get my ice cream, and I can tell Zach is super happy. And I'm like \o/// cause I like it when he's happy. So the group of us are walking around in this deserted parking lot at 10 at night and finally we stop under this stop light and Zach is like "I just wanna say something."
Now. I'm not completely stupid. So I knew something was up, because my bf has pulled surprises before, but I didn't really entertain the idea he was going to propose. I knew he had a ring already, because it's a family ring, and he told me he had it. But idk. I just didn't want to think he was gonna do it and then be disappointed. So it had crossed my mind, but I pushed it aside. So Zach starts talking about our friend Sebby, who just came back from a tour in Afghanistan, and he's thanking him. And we are all clapping because we love him, and are so glad he came back safe.
And then he turns to me. And looks right at me.
"Kat. I know I don't show it in front of everyone all that often, but I really love you."
I'm like "Oh. Fuck."
He comes up to me, and he's talking about how happy I make him, and how much he loves me. And how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.
And then he drops to his knee. And pulls out the ring. And asks me to marry him.
FUCKING. SCREAMING.
And of course I say yes :D How could I not. I love this man. It's ridiculous how much I love him. He was my best friend and my worst enemy throughout high school. We have had SO MANY ups and downs and trials and relationship things. We've gone through two years of a long distance relationship and one year of living with each other, and it started with a death, and that one year had us go through a move together, a flood together, so many personal issues between the two of us, and I still love him. It's not the same love I had for him when he came out to my apartment in SF three years ago, and it's not the same love I had for him when we had our first major fight. I love him so much. He's wonderful, and he's kind and he's gorgeous and I love him. I really do.
NOW PICS. CAUSE NO ONE WANTS TO READ MY SAP.
And since I know people want to see the ring :DDDD
It's a family ring. :DDD And I think it's very gorgeous~
In short. HDAJSKFHJAKHFGFJKAHGJKFADHFGJKAH
/reuses gifs like a boss >.>