Comments | kazeoto: 074 - Out in the open, somewhat

kazeoto

074 - Out in the open, somewhat

Feb 22, 2007 14:46

One. This is my journal. No one else's. I will say anything I want on here. If you don't like that, then take me off your friends' list. Now. If you also have no tolerance for my bipolarity and my random bouts of anger, then you'd better take me off your f-list, too ( Read more... )

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ryuutchi February 22 2007, 23:09:15 UTC

So much for saving the friendship.

kazeoto February 23 2007, 00:00:53 UTC

How am I supposed to try to save this if it's all one-sided? What about agreeing to disagree? Why the twisting of other peoples' words? Why putting all the blame on one person? Why can't you understand that we already feel bad enough for coming up with this decision?

It's not like we suddenly came up with this decision. This was a decision made over time so a lot of thought has been put into this. Advice was asked for, and were told of the same jist.

I'm just not gonna sit here and let you make my significant other feel like he's an asshole because he was the one who had to say all that shit last night. I couldn't say it because I felt like I had no right to. If I had said it, it would have came off in the meanest and most vindictive way possible and that, I didn't want to happen.

You said last night that you were "happy here, but..." so that makes me wonder. You also said that you needed time to change and adapt to everything around you. But I honestly believe that you didn't even embrace the change, nor were you ready for it.

ryuutchi February 23 2007, 06:24:27 UTC

There's a lot I could say. Most of it is defensive and I don't want to be defensive. I liked the three of you and honestly wanted to try and come to a compromise tonight and understand exactly what it is I do that upset the three of you so much.

However, instead I will refer you to the friends-locked post on my journal. We can discuss this there, if you feel the need for further dicussion, where we won't be shouting our dirty laundry on the top of a large building.

kazeoto February 23 2007, 08:30:20 UTC

I don't see this friend-locked entry that you speak of. But the three of us feel that there isn't any further discussion needed for this matter. I believe I speak for the three of us when I say that we're completely done with this.

The minute that I saw "So much for saving the friendship" made me feel like this isn't worth salvaging. And the other stated that the minute you accused him of ruining the friendship made him feel like this wasn't worth salvaging, either. And yet the other is done talking.

This is the last time any of us will be talking about this, at the very least, on LJ. This was very hard to say last night but this time, it isn't so hard anymore because it has been brought to unnecessary proportions. We'd like you to find somewhere else to live.

nobody_674 February 23 2007, 06:12:37 UTC

Try not to break important things...you may regret that later....break things like Trees or plant matter :P

neumusix February 23 2007, 06:51:24 UTC

nooo don't kill the treees! *saves all of Zell's greenary*