I was glad when my wife left, I was glad when my partner left, and I didnt fight. If M left I dont know what I would do, because I have found, what you say you have lost. I would fight for M like it was the last day on earth. I am so sorry Scott. Fuck fuck fuck. Do your best, that's all you can do. Best of luck, man.
Do what feels right to you, Scotters. Rationalising your thoughts enough to put them down in words (and you do it extremely well) can remove some of their horrors. If you bottle them up they'll go round and round and become larger and more tangled and terrifying. I'm thinking of you, and wishing you well. I pray you soon find a way of bearing whatever is necessary. JG
Scott, I recommend 'blog therapy' as it is more likely to do you good than, as JG so rightly puts it, 'bottling it up'. Bottles break and generally make a helluva mess but spilt tears can be mopped up by friends. We can at least keep an eye out for you if you let us know how you feel and, god-willing, help even in some small way.
Oh Scott, I'm sorry. Reading your blog brings back a lot of memories of my own marriage breakdown, and although I was the one who finally made the decision to leave, so much of the pain is the same. You do have the ability to express how you're feeling with real eloquence, and if you find it helps, then you carry on doing it. There's no "one size fits all" solution. If it works, go with it. Take care, Jenny x
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We can at least keep an eye out for you if you let us know how you feel and, god-willing, help even in some small way.
Stay safe matey.
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