Comments | kdoggity: issues

kdoggity

issues

Aug 25, 2005 00:46

Okay, I don't usually have posts like these, but feeling the way I have been - I think it is okay to have at least one post like this ( Read more... )

Comments 9

vintageblondy August 25 2005, 05:22:20 UTC

right after rob and i met and fell in love in 1999, his foreign exchange term ended and after 3 months of us being together, he had to go back to south africa. i didn't know if i would ever SEE him again, let alone how long it would be. oh my gosh, i can't even describe my depression. how do you say goodbye to someone you love for forever? we stood in o'hare for almost an hour crying and holding each other and then he got on the plane and was gone. it was the saddest love story ever...

vintageblondy September 1 2005, 21:12:24 UTC

wow get over yourself.

vintageblondy October 28 2005, 09:42:49 UTC

No need for that kind of comment.

beautifulserena August 25 2005, 08:57:45 UTC

Mines more of a pathetic sad. Let's just start out with I've never even been on a date before. So, what ever follows a date. There you go.

anonymous August 25 2005, 13:49:10 UTC

My first real girlfriend I ever had died in a freak accident and I should have been there. But I wasn't. Her family was having a party on a Sunday afternoon and I had told her I couldn't be there (even though I probably could have) because I selfishly didn't feel like going. So not thinking anything of it I blew it off. And then I get a call much later that night from her Mom that she was helping her brother get a ball off the roof of their two story house and the ladder fell backwards, with her on it, and the extension lock plunged into her heart. She died within minutes. If I had gone to her house that night I would have probably gone up that ladder to get the ball. I always think back to that. Because if I had gone then: A.) I would have been able to get the ball without falling and all would have been fine. or B.) the ladder would have fallen anyway and I'd be dead instead of her. There is no doubt in my mind that she was the one I would be with forever. No question. True, we were in our mid-teens but we had known each other ( ... )

kdoggity August 25 2005, 14:55:18 UTC

Thank you for sharing that story. I appreciate you taking the time to write that personal story.

hilareeee October 28 2005, 10:03:05 UTC

You really need to forgive yourself. I know it is not easy or you'd have done it by now. It isn't your fault. How could you have possibly have known that would happen? Hundreds of people have avoided family parties and will continue to do so with no serious consequences. You were just very very very incredibly unlucky. Glad you have found love again now.

anonymous August 25 2005, 16:04:16 UTC

It's been awhile since I've talked about it, but I thought it might add some perspective to your situation. Basically I was trying to say as bad as it seems, it will get better.

styxfanhouston August 25 2005, 18:11:34 UTC

Wow ( ... )