What to do...

[kelindel1]

As an exercise in expressing myself I wrote a letter to her, and have it sitting on my desktop. It expresses myself and my feelings. But now I ask... do I send it? Do I risk upsetting the balance of our friendship and risk driving her away from me? Or do I keep myself back, sit on it and not stir things up and just keep silent

Comments

[softlykarou]

I'm a big fan of a middle ground and having you use the letter as a way to express yourself to her/reminder of things you want to talk about. I don't find keeping silent to be a particularly healthy option. I mean, we all keep some things silent from our friends but if it was something you could put in letter form it might be worth exploring.

[zen_master]

Send it, I remember a while back we did a LEAD exercise where you and your son stood at the end of the line and shouted how awesome change and exploration were. Change and growth are a good thing, take the leap and explore.