Each morning the sun comes through my window... and shines on the face of a dream come true

[kellelely]

So today was a nice day. Mike and I went to Silver Spring to check out some condos and townhouses that I had picked out last weekend, so I guess the next step is to get pre-approved for a mortgage so we can start seriously looking. Oh, wait... I guess that previous sentence would make more sense if I explained that Mike and I are considering moving

Comments

[knihttnac]

Hey Kelley (and Mike), congratulations on 3 years! And Kelley you always know what to do, so just follow your heart. Thou it was funny to read this today after I got to talk to John for almost an hour earlier today, and of course we talked about our whole plans for marriage (which are still all kinds of up in the air right now). Anyway, have a great anniversary!

[bartoneus]

If anyone, especially an engaged or married person, tells you that you're unsure because you haven't met the right person, all they're doing is justifying their own decisions to themselves. No one but you, and possibly Mike, should be able to get close to judging who's right for you and much less judge when you'll figure it out.

You're a smart woman, obviously, since you're thinking about things in a clear and concious manner. Just don't under-assume your maturity, it can be just as bad as over-assuming it.

[kellelely]

You are wise beyond your years, Mr. Rupp. I'm glad to know that my oldest friend has faith in my judgement - that makes me feel a little more sane. Thanks for the comments!

[juani]

Your maturity has nothing to do with your decision to get married. Marriage is a step in life for some people and no one has to do it. I hope I haven't been making you feel pressured to get married, because I don't think that everyone does have to get married. And I certainly don't think that anyone has any right to tell other people to get married or that marriage is a step everyone has to make in life. I'm happy being married, but I'm a weirdo. I spent my whole life pretending to be a grown up, so my twenties aren't any different from the rest of it.

I know that you are smart enough to do what you want when you want. This includes marriage. I hope you never felt pressured by anything I said...because I don't think marriage is something anyone should be pressured into.

[kellelely]

Aww, shucks. Thanks for the pep talk :-) Don't you worry your pretty little head - you're not making me feel pressured at all. Some people flat out say "When are you to gonna get married?", but not you, and you don't insinuate it, either. Besides, when would you have the chance?!!? 'Cause we never see each other anymore! (Which is sad). You're right, you are a weirdo, but a happy weirdo, and that's what counts! I never doubt that you won't have any regrets about marriage.

[juani]

We should remedy this never seeing each other stuff...

You're just do durned busy with your two jobs and your being a crazy single.

[juani]

Oh...P.S. Happy anniversary! :)