Annoyed

[kenno_fox]

I'm really getting sick of furs who go all emo when someone asks them to stop doing things that would harm others in the future. I asked someone could they stop doing something at a meet because the bar manager, a good friend of mine from school, said that it was getting annoying and could have resulted in us being barred from that establishment. I

Comments

[lupestripe]

No. Simples. (It may depend on how you said it though).

[kenno_fox]

this is what I said

hey mate, I would like to ask you not fsdfsdfs at the Manchester main meet as you did at the mini meet. Its not against you, its that I have been getting complaints from people and the manager of Crunch2 in regards to it. I'm ok with expressing yourself but after what happened then its really something that you should do in your own time.

[lupestripe]

Then it sounds like you were in the right. Nothing to worry about :)

[kenno_fox]

not going to say, as I said, I keep it in private.

[akumasan42]

You weren't in the wrong. If it's something that is going to impact the whole group then it needs to be said, and as you are generally the guy in charge of this stuff then it's right for you to step in and mention something. You did it with respect to them. People mope when they get told off, it's kinda human nature.

You were definitely right to say something though, and their reaction speaks more of their mentality than it does of yours hun.

Hopefully they'll come back to the meets after they've settled down about it.

[little_wolf1985]

*Shrugs* If they want to be a silly little emo child, then let them. You did the right thing huni. xxx

[enteirah]

There's nothing at all wrong with making a reasonable request to someone about behaviour. It is after all more generous than kicking them out straight away, something which would be justified and has been warned about.

If they choose to take a strop and 'boycott' the meet over it, then that's their concern. If they stay away it's at least saving the hassle that'll come when they almost inevitably ignore any friendly requests.

Except I somehow doubt they'll follow through with any such threat, and still come along because 'my million fwends want me there' or something like that.