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[kensaro]

I recognise this a bit too much in myself for comfort, perhaps I should take it to mind.

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[mikazo]

This has a lot to do with assertiveness. I've found myself slipping into this a number of times, and have consciously worked to become more aware of it. It takes time to break an old habit. Paradoxically people who really do work through this and set better boundaries become more attractive to others, when before they were very much afraid of abandonment.

[kensaro]

Yes, reading this has indeed made me realise it about myself, now comes the having to work on it and starting to set those boundaries when needed.

[khakidoggy]

You know, I recall us talking about this some years ago during a nighttime walk in Center Parcs. Good advice!