Overscheduling children is an often repeated crime, at least in the economic strata that I work with. Half the time the kid isn't even interested in what they are attending. They are just muddling through---on a lower level of Maslow's heirarchy. There is no self-actualization going on. Plus half the parents don't seem to know what to do with them in the down time---I think that is the biggest tragedy...maybe not for these parents that are your landlords, but for a lot of parents-- they don't know how to relate to their child, how to share experiences or talk--they just shuttle them around, feed them, and time for bed. Its th teachers , masters, apprentices, and coaches who are representing life to these children--all in 45 minute blocks. Sit down, breathe, and relate. Teach your children to be human first, masters of an art second.
Let them play. I've met more kids in this generation that literally CANNOT play. I think developing that "game-playing, goofing around" mind is critical.
See, when I was in Middle School I had a list like that, too. Specifically, I had something to do after school almost everyday and I even had to rotate my Wednesdays between two different activities that met at the same time. But I LOVED it. I don't even remember what my parent's opinion of it was cause I never really asked them. I walked home from school so if I wanted to do extra-curricular instead - I just did. I, for one, am never as happy with my life as I am when I'm on the verge of a stress induced over-scheduled mental break down. Alright - so maybe happy is the wrong word. I mean, you'd never guess it if you were to observe my inherent laziness, but I really do (and did) love it.
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Did you mention that to the landlords?
Maybe instead of a shrink, just give the kid some free time.
Speaking of free time...
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