Comments | kentkat: It was the best of times, it was the worst of times....

kentkat

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times....

Jan 14, 2004 09:07

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whittit January 14 2004, 17:03:15 UTC

well you and kevin...isnt that great....

I still love you! kentkat January 14 2004, 18:12:50 UTC

Woops! did I forget to mention that I got to spend some time with my best pall Whitty-titty? I guess I did!She was a lot of help too, helped me get out of the house for a while and supported me through it all, thank you hunny! She bought me a wonderful gift for christmas too, a purple Scooby-Doo pillow with glow-in-the-dark paw prints! Isn't she sweeet?!
I love you babe! I hope your parents get their heads out of their butts and realize that you love them and are just trying to do what's best for you!

Re: I still love you! whittit January 15 2004, 04:27:06 UTC

oh did that slip your mind?

That a boy iamyournothing January 14 2004, 17:33:31 UTC

ORIAN!!!!! I wish I would have been able to get a hold of you or you could have gotten a hold of me. I'm very proud of you. Honestly if I were you I don't know if I would have been able to do that. I'm very sorry your parents are having a hard time accepting things but don't let the man get you down.... go down on the man ;) I love you babeee and please call my cell 408-1169!!! and if I don't answer leave me your number I'm going to come visit you soon I promise. I love you! And we can take a ride and you can ask if we're still in Ohio, haha get it?!!

Re: That a boy kentkat January 14 2004, 18:05:13 UTC

HAHAHAHA! Yes I get it!
I'm sorry I didn't get to hang out with you, I wasn't home for very long and things were kind of weird after I came out(of course) so I didn't get to do things many people. I will mos def get a hold of you though, I would LOVE to drive off the face of the earth with you again! hehehe
love ya babe! I hope everything is working out for you!

fixinthemix January 15 2004, 01:47:51 UTC

Ask your parents if they're willing to go to counseling with you? But make sure that the person you're going to see is a Psychologist, and that they aren't some whack who thinks you could be cured. It's really helping my situation a lot now with them in therepy.

You go first alone. Make sure the Dr is okay. Then bring your parents along the next time.

Good Luck, and keep us abreast.

kentkat January 22 2004, 14:22:44 UTC

abreast....nice choice in words there...lol
I will certainly keep you drama/drag queens as abreast as I can, lol.
I'm don't think my parents are quite ready yet for someone to try to talk to them about it but I will deffinitely keeep that in mind. Thanks for the advice babe!

MWah! miss u boi! puppylove101 January 16 2004, 13:11:27 UTC

Hope everything is going well! I cant wait til im there next fall to see ya! Toodles

Re: MWah! miss u boi! kentkat January 22 2004, 14:18:22 UTC

Thanks babe! Can't WAIT to see you! I miss you! mwah!

Good on ya sweetie ravage2040 January 16 2004, 18:21:13 UTC

Hey Nice going babers. Very cool that you've found that strength and that happy place to pull it from. Many people never do, very sad. It is too bad that your parents wigged out, but they didn't kick you out and they were willing to seek help for you, so their love is not in question at least. I didn't deal with it for very long and so I'm not real sure exactly how it feels, but I'll be happy to be of any assistance I can. Try maybe a good therapist, psychologist not psychiatrist, and make sure he's not a "find a cure for Gay," kind of quack. Well, chin up and all that sort, and keep on smiling...everyone's prettier when they smile.

Re: Good on ya sweetie kentkat January 22 2004, 14:26:38 UTC

Yeah, my parents deffinitely want to send me off to 'Stragiht Camp'. I feel a lot better now that I told them but I'm just concerned now that I won't make any progress. Hopefully I can keep going and eventualy get to the place where I can be open and honest about who I am on a day to day basis.