I need a little help.
My friend's mom died last night. He wrote me a one line email to let me know. My problem is I don't know her name or the city she lives in. I'd like to send something for her funeral, but am at a bit of a loss. I'm almost sure she lived in Pennsylvania, but there's the tiny possibility she lived in New Jersey, where my friend lives. I do know it was a trip of just a couple or so hours for him to visit her. I don't want to bug him with questions about this, plus I doubt he will be answering email at this time.
She only died last night, so her obit is probably not in the paper yet, right? I've searched for obits in NJ and PA with her last name and I guess I'll do that tomorrow.
Is that the best I can do, do you think? I feel really bad that I never knew her first name.