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kickbackkid

This Forever Evolving Mainland

Jun 22, 2006 03:08

Do not under any circumstance drink an opened Guiness that's been sitting on your desk for over 4 days. Just not recommended. Not trying to make your decision on anything or anything, but...perhaps I have a little bit of knowledge on this ( Read more... )

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r0see June 22 2006, 11:14:01 UTC

keep bein' around her. she'll come around. i mean, i only know you through lj, but, again, i bet you're charming in real life, too. i'm sure she sees it as well.

and about not wanting to be with you 'cause of all those you've been with? hmmmm... i'm engaged to a girl who's slept with a few men, and, sure, it burns me a little bit, but, well... that was her then, and i love who she is now. ;x i don't know if that actually helps you at all, but... eh, i don't know. bring her flowers?

kickbackkid June 24 2006, 19:17:17 UTC

Hha, I'm hella a hopeless romantic. I brought her a yellow rose because yellow is her favorite color. I think she's coming around.

Its just human nature strongchad June 22 2006, 18:29:02 UTC

No one, man or woman, wants to hear their partner had so many, uh, partners, over the course of their life (much less by 22), so you can't fault her for doing exactly what just about anyone would do in that sort of situation. We all like to think the past is in the past, but it makes up who you are in the present. So whatever it is, looking down on you "morally", insecurity issues about the difference in sexual partners, or worried past behavior being a good indicator of your future behavior, you really can't blame her on that or on her past relationships. It is human nature albeit one of more annoying flaws.

Either way, relax and take it easy. Anyone needs to get accustomed and used to information like that so let it settle in, and if all goes well, it can get to a point where it won't matter anyway. Let it fade into the background and see what happens then. Patience young Skywalker.

Just remember though, you can't make someone feel something if they don't want to, even if you feel differently.

Re: Its just human nature kickbackkid June 24 2006, 19:18:08 UTC

Thank you sensai.

Re: Its just human nature strongchad June 26 2006, 04:35:48 UTC

You are welcome, young grasshopper. Hai!

hildeaux June 22 2006, 19:35:40 UTC

your writing is so beautiful.

but srsly, sounds like she has issues and that sucks. just remember it's not your fault, and don't try to change yourself for someone else.

belatrxmourning June 23 2006, 02:01:24 UTC

Well, my lesbian cousin once told me that gay men can hit the bathhouse, but lesbians generally require three references as to your character and an engraved invitation before you'll get as far as coffee. I've found that to be pretty accurate ( ... )

kickbackkid January 10 2011, 15:06:12 UTC

"go without cock for a huge amount of time until you manage to engrave the invitation and get a few references"

This worked for the most part. :c)