Comments | kicking_back: The way girls are..

kicking_back

The way girls are..

Apr 21, 2004 17:47

So this is something i have never understood. Why do SO many girls feel the need to be vindictive and lie? I haven't had anything happen all that recently, but in the past, have has my share of girls (not in the naughty way) who feel that have to lie about me and thinsg i have done ( Read more... )

Comments 9

is any of this... xsheepx April 21 2004, 10:58:58 UTC

Ola has ended up knowing some PRICKS, as shes too trusting and nice, i hate seeing people walk over her because by nature shes trusting and willing to give people chances.

about me at all?

Re: is any of this... kicking_back April 22 2004, 02:37:30 UTC

yes and no.
You arn't the target of this comment, however, seeing Ola hurt, after advising her to follow her heart and stuff, i can't help but feel a bit bitter, for her, as shes so enthusiastic and puts her all into something, and watching her get the wind knocked out her sails, by get another guy, well i think its natural for me to feel the way i do.

i fail to see... xsheepx April 22 2004, 05:51:59 UTC

how i've done anything wrong. we went out. after a while i decided i didn't want to out out with her anymore. it happens. every day. thousands of relationships end. i didn't cheat on her, or do anything untoward. she was hurt. i wish she wasn't, but what can i do about it? i've been hurt plenty of times myself, and far worse as well. it's not like i'm some serial heart breaker.

anyway, i don't even know who you are. i mean, i'm sure i probably do know you in real life, but seen as you didn't put your name in your user info.

Re: i fail to see... kicking_back April 22 2004, 09:25:16 UTC

then sheep, i have to ask, if you don't know who i am, why add me as a friend..?
Anyhow its Nat, and i'm sorry to say that im biased to seeing me friends upset.
In black and white what you wrote makes sense. But i live in a world of colour.
Anyway screw talking about anything like this on livejournal, i'll be at the show on Sunday.

Thread 5

hmm.. maysome April 21 2004, 11:08:32 UTC

Its looking out for the people who count, and yourself, that weeds these people out.

People in general are pretty crap. I am bad in the way that i give everyone a chance. Until they hurt me, or someone very close to me and i witness this.

I am sick of people at the moment. I am also sick of being judged for something that I did that i dont regret. Well, at this point, I dont anyway as it has shown me peoples true colours.

its true.... bustin_out April 21 2004, 14:21:27 UTC

i wish you could know someones true colours from the start, everyone wears masks, a social construct dating from the renaissance which stressed the importance of a 'public image'as a way of conducting business which was done in the social sphere, e.g. at court. sadly even though the spheres of work and play have separated to a large extent, our need to wear masks has not kept to the work side of things. instead everyone, to a larger or smaller extent cant take their mask off when with friends, which sadly has turned into our worst enemy. now it takes a fight or plenty of hurt to find out if someone is false. girls want to be friends with other girls, but talk crap behind their back. some girls have this problem, they cant help themselves, like chronic gossip syndrome...either its because they are so bored they need to create drama, or because they put men before their girlfriends, which is just silly, because bonds with the same sex are meant to be stronger and less complicated and come with less pitfalls.ah life is too complicated, i ( ... )

kingofmoke April 21 2004, 14:32:15 UTC

I agree with pretty much 99% of what you're saying but remember people have the capacity to change. Everyone i know has changed since i first met them (mostly for the positive). God knows i've changed too (for better or worse is for others to judge i guess). My capacity for trust has gravely diminished over the past couple of years, as yours evidently has. But my capacity for forgiveness is still there. I guess theres a fair few fuckos out there who will wake up one day and realise what shits they've been and go about changing themselves. Forgive but never forget...hmmm...yeah. xx

forgiveness is the way to go... bustin_out April 21 2004, 14:49:36 UTC

whats it gonna achieve to just stoop to their level, but its also about the person accepting that forgiveness and changing, if they dont, forget it.
Yes ppl change, but then they just drift apart and its natural so no harm there. Its when theres a rift and its sudden because ppl make mistakes, but if you forgive you stop the cycle, but some girls dont get that and go eye for an eye and backchat into infinity, they cant seem to let it go (and actually i have seen this with guys too). But most guys have a punch-up, shake hands and deal (or am i being naive here?). Girls dont, which is prolly why highschool for me was a nightmare (11 years in a same sex school, 4 of which was spent in a convent, nuns man, they have issues ahhhhhh).

Also...
"Would you leave a child close to you with a known paedophile?"
This is why i thought you doing a livejournal would be awesome....you crack me up, equating stupid girls with paedophiles? classic! X