there needs to be some more real ppl in the world, pronto. that is one thing that i have really tried to work on; one thing that counselling actually did do for me:
i used to be happy with who i was, faults and all, but my therapist really put a new perspective on it for me: self-acceptance is great, as long as you're being the best person you can be. and thats when i decided some stuff needed to change, and i wanted people to like me not just bc im fun or stylish(vanity), but bc i am a fucking good person and friend. it is a big moment in your life when you realize these things.
Please know that whatever happens between us or you know if you change and I change...I will always be your friend. Honestly, I don't think I've changed much over the years...I mean my clothes do with the styles and my favorites change....but other than that I'm still the same Heather you've always known. I like to keep it real and you know that :) Don't worry about me being fake.
you were never the focus of this post, honestly your name never has cometo mind. heather peoples clothes changng has nothing to do with being fake, they are a style and thank god styles change other wise all our boyfriends would have mullets and would be wearing neon clothing. changing is a part of growing, im talking about people growing into someone they arent. and turning their back on people who used to be there one and only friend.
hefer i love you are and will always be one of my closes friends, i know we dont see eachother as much, and things with both of us get really hectic sometimes, but i love that you can come back into town, we can hang out and its like no time has passed at all. none of that weirdness like "we havent hung out in awhile we dont even know eachother." crap we are still the same crazy kids we were when we were in delaura
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there needs to be some more real ppl in the world, pronto.
that is one thing that i have really tried to work on;
one thing that counselling actually did do for me:
i used to be happy with who i was, faults and all, but my therapist really put a new perspective on it for me:
self-acceptance is great, as long as you're being the best person you can be.
and thats when i decided some stuff needed to change, and i wanted people to like me not just bc im fun or stylish(vanity), but bc i am a fucking good person and friend.
it is a big moment in your life when you realize these things.
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hefer i love you are and will always be one of my closes friends, i know we dont see eachother as much, and things with both of us get really hectic sometimes, but i love that you can come back into town, we can hang out and its like no time has passed at all. none of that weirdness like "we havent hung out in awhile we dont even know eachother." crap we are still the same crazy kids we were when we were in delaura
i love my hefer bears
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