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[killerhippie]

i'm really tired of people's big fat personality blimps that they carry around. it's like they've all made up these facts and definitions of themselves that they have to live up to all the time, or else their whole cloud of false confidence gets wafted away. regardless of who they really are or how they really feel, they've created this false

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[lovelybat]

I doubt anyone should ever stop being the victim and shut the fuck up. What they should do is stop being the victim and realize their own worth, power and capacity for greatness/love. But I understand your frustration :).

So many times people think the best thing to do when they're struggling in their mire of shit is to just STOP. But guess what! It doesn't work that way. You may be able to pull yourself together for a while. Not think about it. Not let it run your life. But it will ALWAYS come back until you deal with whatever is the ROOT of the situation, not just toss it aside or bury it. If someone stops whining, they may appear to have gotten better, but shutting up isn't going to fix anything. Ya gotta DO something about it. Confront shit. Does this person you're talking about know that?