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Nov 10, 2005 09:24

It's so weird... I was walking over the bridge to work this morning when it occurred to me that I'm in charge of my life. I mean, yes, of course I'm in charge of my life: I'm 29 years old, I work full-time, I own my own car, I am in graduate school... so then why is this just occurring to me ( Read more... )

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spiritbear68 November 10 2005, 18:06:43 UTC

Just alot of changes for you and you will adjust.

joanne511 November 10 2005, 18:17:53 UTC

That happened for me when Jason and I moved in together and then moved to San Diego. My mom stopped giving me her opinion about everything and I was independent of them (parents). What's funny is I had been in a long term, live-in relationship before, but it was different with my relationship with Jason. Maybe my parents felt more comfortable; that we were being recognized as adults capable of making decisions without their input. I don't know.

Jason's never been the bossy, let me tell you what I THINK you should do (repeatedly) type. I felt like I was really on my own, creating my own life and family.

Funny, I didn't really think about it until now. :)

kimberdill76 November 10 2005, 18:34:48 UTC

I guess part of it is that my stuff is still divided between our apartment and my mom's house. I hope to at least get all my clothes moved over this weekend... which will just leave the stuff in my desk and our wedding gifts over there.

I figure I'll adjust, but you're right, it's like I'm creating my own life now. It's cool, but kinda a bit freaky too! I think a lot of it is just the magnitude of all of it at once... moving in with him, marrying him... BANG. That's what I get for being traditional I guess. In part, it's pretty cool too because it's not traumatic or anything, just sorta surreal.

xxhellbentxx November 10 2005, 18:42:38 UTC

3.5 years of living together and we still eaith weird crap for dinner.
lol It doesnt help that I cant cook and DH is a busy guy.

Sounds like you guys are adjusting well!

elcynic619 November 11 2005, 03:35:55 UTC

Hell I still freak out that I'm old enough to drive... *L*

But it is great, and honestly, you see the change in you.

And we make the effort to eat togeather, but it doens't always happen. And we eat different things, (I'm on wieght watchers, he's not) so there is that.