Where have you been all my life?

[kimmykoface]

So, for some strange reason I feel like I need to get back out into the world and start dating, which I have no idea how to do FYI, and find someone new. It's ridiculous because I just got out of an almost 3 year relationship and it has only been about a month and a half since we broke up. I have no idea why I feel this way since I know I need to

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[cuntfusion]

In my opinion, you do NOT need to get back into the dating scene yet. Until you feel like you're ready, you should be alone. Dating just to date is pointless and only ends in getting more hurt because you get attached. Who cares if it's "weird" to not have a boyfriend - I went pretty much all of high school without one and I watched all of my friends go from one boy and heartache to another and I never had to experience that pain. Why would I want to?

Guy friends are awesome, but don't try not to fall for them and make sure you have boundaries until you're ready. It could take you a year to be ready, and it could be next week, but I can't stress enough how much you need to be ready to move on before you move no. Otherwise you're going to end up screwing yourself over and it'll be much worse than what you're feeling now.