Comments | kims4086: It figures

kims4086

It figures

Jul 03, 2004 17:13

Alright, for those of you who haven't figured it out- I'm through...I don't want to sound like a completely needy, possessive freak, but I've been forgotten too many times. I'm through with feeling dragged along, forgotten, feeling like I'm reaching and stretching to make friendships go on. Friendships are two way streets, and all of my supposed ( Read more... )

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justrusty4 July 3 2004, 21:53:51 UTC

I think that you are over reacting. We (your friends) have never not invited you to any shin-dig. It's just that you never seem to be available (and that's not an insult; it's just a fact). Did we not call you last night? You couldn't come. Did we not call you post-flick? You didn't want to come.

By giving up on your friends in search for other "life-long" ones (I guess we're just chop suey) would only be your loss, because we do care about you.

kims4086 July 3 2004, 22:03:06 UTC

yes, in fact i called before and after the flic...and it's not that i think y'all don't care...it just that y'all don't care enough to think to call or fulfill promises, but you needn't worry as much because you never made any promises

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flowerypuff July 4 2004, 00:44:51 UTC

heck, [i]I[/i] came. If there's someone who qualifies as "out of the circle" it would be me.

People like you... they like to be around you. Missing stuff is tough, but it happens to everyone.

kims4086 July 4 2004, 03:35:36 UTC

You guys don't understand...it wasn't this one incident...it's an overall feeling...periodically hang outs are options, but i'm saying i'm not trying anymore...i do miss y'all and love y'all, but i still feel like high school behavior lingers.

u2tustp830 July 4 2004, 03:58:16 UTC

Kimberly, I understand and I know that I have had something to do with your anger, but you need to know that it was never intentional. I actually have felt at one point the exact same way that you have felt, so let's talk. I really do love you and I probably should be making more of an effort to show that and show that I value you as a really close friend.

kims4086 July 4 2004, 13:14:41 UTC

i'd love to talk with you, so give me a call or somethin...i do need to say one more thing: nothing is ever intentional for many of you.

poop81 July 7 2004, 02:52:08 UTC

I've called you 4 or 5 times in the past couple of weeks and you either couldn't come or didn't return my calls. You know I care about you, but it seems like you either don't want to hang around me or don't have a good time when I'm there.

I realize that came off harsh and I'm sorry. We don't have much time left and it's stupid for me to get mad. Please know that you're more than welcome to anything I organize or go to.

I'm setting up a thing tomorrow night for anyone to come, but I'll call you in case you don't see the post.