Comments | kingdom_daphsim: It is time..

kingdom_daphsim

It is time..

Aug 28, 2006 19:18

This is my last week at the zoo and I could cry. My new job as a trainee at an estate agents company starts on monday and I am getting that sort of panic again that i had years ago. I don't want to do this, I don't want to have a contract which lasts 3 years (or if I am hard working 2,5 years) because it gets me back into this awful feeling of ( Read more... )

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xmybellybuttonx August 28 2006, 19:37:54 UTC

Simi, kein Vertrag ist für die Ewigkeit!!! Wenn Du gehen willst, dann gehst Du einfach. *ggg*
Kopf hoch, nimm den Job, solange Du ihn willst. Aber verliere nie Deinen Traum aus den Augen.
Kopf hoch :)
Ganz liebe Grüsse aus dem Norden der Republik *wink*

sugoll August 28 2006, 22:50:13 UTC

First point: any new situation creates stress. It's always easier to stay where you are, where you know what the problems are. If you move into the unknown, you may sink, or you may fly. You won't know until you try. It may sound like a cliche, but consider: are you worried about what you want/don't want to do, or are you worried about the unknowns ( ... )

kingdom_daphsim August 29 2006, 19:30:57 UTC

oh thanks for taking the time sugoll :-) I am sure you are busy and you shouldn't worry about all those things ( ... )

sugoll August 30 2006, 21:46:27 UTC

> if there's one tempting situation I'll be extremely tempted to give it all up.
> But the contract also means things like I can't take off a day till christmas etc. It will restrict my travels to a minimum.

If you think about it, both of these things will be true no matter what you do. Let's say you get a part in a play. You'll have to work hard at it, and fit in with the rehearsal schedule, and you'll have to stick to it even if a more interesting part is offered to you. Alternatively, you could break off from one to do the other, but then you don't achieve the first task, and can't take what you've learned from it and apply it to the next. Don't underestimate the psychological effects of never completing something - or the benefits of the satisfaction you get from completing something.

And I don't know about you, but Christmas is looking way too close, right now. I'm still not ready for June to have finished ( ... )

siggav August 30 2006, 09:31:07 UTC

Girl, you're young. Don't worry about your age ( ... )