Is this wrong to want to do?

[kingginger]

There is a woman, two stands down, who, for me, has the most amazing legs and bum.
I mean - for me - they are the height of attractiveness. Spot on 100% perfect.
(incidentally, about 5 ft 9 ish, Spanish lady, probably size 14, nice curvy bum).
And shes wearing a short black skirt and platformy heels... So she knows she's got assets.

And I have had to

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[kingginger]

I didn't in the end anyway...
At least I know not to do it.

And I objectify men and women equally :-)

[ajva]

I'm with Aegidian on this, I'm afraid. I sympathise greatly but think of it from her point of view: like many women, she's probably had quite a few people "compliment" her unsolicited (and even if she's wearing a short skirt, I'm sure you'd agree that doesn't mean she specifically wants to be approached in this way). There's nothing wrong with striking up a polite conversation with a view to getting to know someone better, but for the first thing out of your mouth to be a comment on her looks is a big no-no, I'd say. I still shudder at the (relatively recent) memory of going to the bar to get drinks for my workmates one Friday lunchtime to have a guy standing nearby with some friends say to me, with no warning, "I really love the way you move", the sexual urge behind it written all over his face. Possibly he thought I'd take that as a compliment too. And to be completely honest I did, *but not in a good way*. Because you see, although it's theoretically nice to know that someone finds you attractive, in actual fact it's not that big a

[kingginger]

Sorry for me being me :-S

But yeah - Indeed... Just wanted to compliment her... But yeah... I guess...
Doh

Man fail...

[kingginger]

Alas I did try and be friendly to talk to her, but she was very spanish with broken english...

And my Spanish finishes at Hello, thanks, and a beer please :-S

Doh... Nevermind...

But hey ho...

I

[kingginger]

Yeah... Sadly I guess the fantasy was all in my head.
It was just working a three day exhibition and she just really was super attractive to me :-S

But hey ho... Onward and upward, she was Spanish, I dont speak it, and I've got zero prospects...

Just getting carried away with the fantasy I guess...

Hey ho - Back to normal now anyway...