i'm just not even going to comment in here anymore because i'm never trying to be mean and i NEVER told you what not to do, all i'm doing is looking out for you but you obviously won't ever listen to my advice anyway.
or maybe you should just disable comments if you don't want anybody's input. i'm kind of pissed that you're taking well meaning advice as people telling you what to do.
I gave good advice, and if you think it was giving you shit, re read it. If you still think it's only giving you shit just to hear myself talk, you definitely aren't ready to be a parent.
you said RIGHT there, "than you definitley aren't ready to be a parent" you have no right to tell someone wether or not they are ready to be a parent. THAT is what I was talking about. I felt as if you guys were TELLING me I am not capable of being a mother not that you are concerned for me or anything like that. That wasnt advice it was more of a TELLING like controling a situation rather than trying to pursae(sp) it.
my personal opinion is that you are reading way into what people are saying and selectively seeing what you think is demeaning.
I have read your jounrals a lot and the people that love you are saying things that arent demeaning at all... just personal opinions. I would think that if you dont want peoples personal opinions dont have a live journal. or dont have them on your friends list because you know they will write what they think.
I didnt say I dont want there opinions, I'm just saying that just beacuse they are giving me advice doesnt mean I will use it. and it was the way they were giving me advice.
like i said before, if you're writing about something that's really personal and you don't want to hear people disagree then i don't think it's a good idea to put it on the internet. whenever i feel like i need to write about stuff that i don't feel like hearing comments about i either disable comments on the entry or i write it on paper instead.
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or maybe you should just disable comments if you don't want anybody's input. i'm kind of pissed that you're taking well meaning advice as people telling you what to do.
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I have read your jounrals a lot and the people that love you are saying things that arent demeaning at all... just personal opinions. I would think that if you dont want peoples personal opinions dont have a live journal. or dont have them on your friends list because you know they will write what they think.
just a thought... no need to attack.
love always,
rand
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