I am so sorry to Joe for that loss. It's so hard to know what to do to be there for people when things like this happens. If you need to talk I understand because when Justin's friend died in a motorcycle crash last year I felt completely at loss for how to handle it and be there for Justin so I know how you must be feeling. We're both here for you both if you need us and don't hesitate to let us know.
Thank you Heather. Yes it is very hard to want to do the right thing and be there for the person you love most when they are going through a hard time. I dont want to do the wrong thing and make him feel worse. but I dont want to act all fake and happy and avoid it. SO I've just been going with my gut and not thinking too much about it and it seems to be working. I am going to be REALLY lonely when he is gone. but I am trying not to emphasize on that to him much cuz I dont want him to feel guilty or anything. So if you guys wanted to come over and hang out some night that would be great! we could watch a movie or something. OR maybe this weekend we can have a party for Alia. I dunno. but we should do SOMETHING so I dont go completly crazy from being worried about Joe plus being lonely in the house all by myself.
I would really like to do something for Alia's birthday. She was supposed to hang out with me the night of her birthday but it got too late so maybe we can plan something.
I'm so sorry becky, what a horrible thing for Joe to have to go through. I am so lucky I haven't yet lost anyone really close to me. I can't even imagine how painful it must be. I hope he and the poor girl's family are able to heal in time.
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Love you guys!!!!
<3 Becky
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I understand the lonliness thing.....
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