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kinsey_six

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Dec 14, 2010 20:31

you want to ask me a question? go for it. i'll do that meme thing too. i don't care if it's personal or not. ask it anonymously if you want. this should be fun! unless no one asks me anything, and then it will just be embarrassing. :)

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whtmtnwmn December 15 2010, 12:47:30 UTC

Are you legally married?

kinsey_six December 15 2010, 12:51:11 UTC

yes. we had a civil union in 2008 when that became legal, and then last year we went down to city hall and filled out the form to change it to a legal marriage when they approved that.

we are very fortunate to live in nh.

whtmtnwmn December 15 2010, 13:15:13 UTC

Absolutely! I, too, am very proud to live in a state that doesn't discriminate.

Thanks!
=D

lydiagrace December 15 2010, 14:01:00 UTC

i was just curious if you were still seeing that therapist and if it was helping with that anxiety... since with the baby that will be a whole different transition. but i could be projecting... i want kids but i'm terrified i'll do something to them so i think i'd have to work on that in therapy if i ever got married... :)

kinsey_six December 15 2010, 14:39:31 UTC

actually i stopped going. i just couldn't fit it into my work days, and they are closed in the evenings. it's going ok though. actually i'm too busy and too tired to be anxious right now. i can't remember the last time i had sad or scary thoughts about losing jacob. bees are pretty much gone for the season, and they are a big trigger for me. i have a feeling that once the baby is here, or even once it's closer to coming, i'll need to start fitting it in again, but for now, i'm good.

that said, if i could still fit it in, i would probably still be going.

lydiagrace December 16 2010, 07:40:42 UTC

i'm glad that things are going well for you!

dreamsrundeep December 15 2010, 15:21:10 UTC

What was coming out for you like? How did your family react?

kinsey_six December 15 2010, 15:44:57 UTC

my mom knew long before i was ready to admit it. one day she asked "are you ever going to tell me?" out of nowhere. so i let it all pour out. within two months, i my engagement to nick (see above) was over, and lots of mysterious health concerns i had were gone. (i was so sick from the stress of trying to stay closeted that i had to have a colonoscopy, a sigmoidoscopy, a barrium swallow, and several other tests to see what was wrong. turns out it was just stress ( ... )

enchantedmagic December 15 2010, 20:49:39 UTC

If you won a million dollars- what would you do with it?

kinsey_six December 16 2010, 02:11:21 UTC

pay off the house and the van. get a less stressing job, so that i would still be making money but not have to worry about keeping THIS job. actually scratch that. i'd quit my job now and stay home until the baby is 6 months old. then i'd get the less stressing job.

i don't think i'd make lots of big changes in my life. i like our house (although we might want to look at moving when it's time for jacob to go to school. i am not crazy about our school system). i might make some changes like put the dormer on the back and a bathroom upstairs. no huge vacations, nothing to piddle the money away.

i'd help my uncle and aunt move back to maine (they can't afford to move from indiana and they miss family TERRIBLY).

of course i'd donate some.

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kinsey_six December 16 2010, 02:16:34 UTC

about myself, i learned that i am strong. i pushed out a 9lb 5oz baby with no epidural. i nursed him for 26 months, pumping at work until he was 13 months old, hating every second of pumping, and never sleeping well because of night nursing. i went back to work at 6 weeks when my body wasn't even fully healed yet ( ... )